Does your mate have to share everything with you?

@sharon6345 (126050)
United States
April 13, 2016 2:35pm CST
Are you the type that feels your mate can't have something going on that you don't need to know about? I know people that have loved one dealing with stressful situations. They share with a sibling and want it kept between them. Do you feel they should share with you because,your married.. I don't think a mate should know everything my family is dealing with.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
13 Apr 16
At times he does. Men in general really tick me off.
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@sharon6345 (126050)
• United States
13 Apr 16
They tick me off to but,I can't live life without one of those. lol
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@celticeagle (118276)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Apr 16
In a good relationship everything would be on the table anyway. If I am married then all that they are going through should be known. If not it's not a very good relationship. As far as stuff your family is going through that is up to them and their business.
@sharon6345 (126050)
• United States
14 Apr 16
That is just what I mean my mat would not have to share with me his families business Thanks.
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@celticeagle (118276)
• Boise, Idaho
14 Apr 16
@sharon6345 ....The relationship is just between you two.
@sharon6345 (126050)
• United States
14 Apr 16
@celticeagle Yes nice. thanks.
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@ShyBear88 (17427)
• United States
14 Apr 16
I don't think my husband has to but it does worry me when something is bother him or he is stressed about something that he doesn't want to share with. I don't force him to tell me anything he doesn't want to. I tell him talk to someone anyone if you need to.
@sharon6345 (126050)
• United States
14 Apr 16
That is great for sure. I hope it works out for the best in those cases.
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@ShyBear88 (17427)
• United States
17 Apr 16
@sharon6345 thanks!
• United States
13 Apr 16
It depends on the situation - but not everything has to be told if it isn't necessary in my opinion. Though no secrets would be nice. But if it isn't important, than why add unnecessary drama/information.
@sharon6345 (126050)
• United States
13 Apr 16
That is wonderful that you allow the privacy of him and his loved ones. Thanks.
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@IvySaysHi (4344)
• United States
13 Apr 16
Not every single little thing like I don't need to know how many times he's gone to the bathroom and what he has done, but it is nice to have good communication and be able to share whatever with each other