I wish I could not shed one tear over it.

@sharon6345 (110274)
United States
April 19, 2016 9:43am CST
It did not hit me as much as it should have till the other day. My daughter only contacts me when she wants or needs something. I love my daughter and would always do what I could to help her. However,I saw that it was hurting me that over a week went by and no contact.. Then out of no where she needed me. I went the hell off and told her not to contact me ever again. Not only that I told her that she was a user an that I was tired of being used. I also told her is she ever needed anything not to ever call me again. I then told her she was dead to me and that I wanted nothing to do with her. Well,yesterday I got a message on facebook that said,mom and nothing more. I said yes and all now nothing was replied. I sit here now wondering if she is ok. and of course the tears came out. I don't regret my feeling just my words.
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@cherriefic (4279)
• Baguio, Philippines
19 Apr 16
We sometimes say something we didn't mean to say. I hope it will work out for you and your daughter soon.
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@sharon6345 (110274)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I don't think it will ever be the same again.
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• Baguio, Philippines
19 Apr 16
@sharon6345 She might be more mature now than before. Hope for the best.
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@GardenGerty (90960)
• Marion, Kansas
19 Apr 16
It is the truth, but it could have been said differently. "NO" is one of the hardest words to say.
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@sharon6345 (110274)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I think your right about that and that is going to hurt me for a while.
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@Corbin5 (81314)
• United States
19 Apr 16
Well, we all say things we shouldn't have said due to great stress. Let this one go and do what you think is best for your daughter. It is common for this age group to make contact only when they need something.
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@sharon6345 (110274)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I meant every word and wish I just did not say it to her. I hope and pray she is ok as well.
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@Corbin5 (81314)
• United States
19 Apr 16
@sharon6345 I know you are a wonderful mom and so does your daughter. That love, no matter what we say, will always run deep. Just let some time pass and check on her to make sure she is OK. I will send prayers for her being OK.
@MGjhaud (20804)
• Philippines
19 Apr 16
she's still your daughter mo matter. i hope she's ok. i hope you both will be okay.
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@sharon6345 (110274)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I will be ok. I am sure she could care less about me right now. I wish her the best.
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@amadeo (47714)
• United States
19 Apr 16
Sounds like mine.The only time that they want me is money.Never win
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@carebear29 (26076)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
19 Apr 16
At least she messaged you. It will get better over time. Prayers!
@sharon6345 (110274)
• United States
19 Apr 16
she did not want anything much or she would have said something.
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@jstory07 (58289)
• Roseburg, Oregon
19 Apr 16
Kids only seem to contact us when they need something.
@sharon6345 (110274)
• United States
19 Apr 16
I am tired of it and it's hurting me to feel used and abused. I want nothing at all if that is that case.
@LadyDuck (121458)
• Switzerland
19 Apr 16
I understand, sometimes I have this same feeling with my niece. I feel used and I get angry, but then I regret.