People needing to know what your doing?

@ricki_911 (19299)
Toronto, Ontario
May 2, 2016 5:43pm CST
Ok so this goes back several months and I just pieced it together now. Months ago (almost last summer) I dated a guy. He was so all over the place, one minute he'd make plans but never followed through it. His ex started saying things about me (and happened to say it to my cousin). So when I confronted him, he ignored me. I just walked away because in my mind if he believes his ex. Fast forward a few months I was in Walmart and I hear this guy say something like omg look who it is. I sort of ignored. I knew it was this guys best friend and then you hear him say things like look and dragging this guy along. His friend kept trying to get my attention. A few months later I'd go somewhere and it could of been coicidence or something but a few times he'd be behind me. He'd drive real close then back off. This guy wont have a conversation with me he is always nervous and ackward is the issue.If I even ask him something its so weird. Last week I went for coffee with a friend, and this guy and this friends sat listening to us. Trying to get my attention now in my mind if you dont come talk to me to my face. The next day I was going towork and happened to get behind him. He knows where I work,and what roads I take. The 5 to 10 minute drive he kept pulling over to see if it was me and looking. Now I've driven for years and you can tell he wasn't just driving he was watching me. Saturday I had to petsit and decided to go to timmies (coffee shop) for a coffee.This guy and his friend was standing in the parking lot and staring me while he was shying away. As I sat on facebook and started going through friends. One person stuck out, now we have a couple friends in common, also a few on her list I grew up with. Several months ago she added me to facebook and I thought maybe I grew up with her (because the friends were in that group sort of speaking). I never even looked into it just whatever. Well I got thinking today I don't recall anyone at school and realized she is 8 years older than me. I was going through her friends (which is how I thought we went to school together or something). Well I saw one guy picture and thought that seriously looks like the guy that was out with coffee with them. I said something to my friend and she said it sounds like they got this girl to add me (so I wouldn't question it as we do have things in common, and grew up int he same area). to watch my facebook and see what I am doing. I thought this was funny, so I am keeping this girl on my facebook let them watch me.
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@GardenGerty (98217)
• United States
2 May 16
Silly people, not really very grown up. He needs to talk to you if he wants to and leave all the snoopy people out of it.
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@ricki_911 (19299)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 May 16
That is my point of view come say it to me,even if its not nice. But when I explained it to my friend (who's in her late 40s). She had said sounds like he is following you, and just doesn't want to admit. Why ask about me or ask his ex for the truth, then when I say something or show up somewhere act all nervous and weird.
@Frischy (119)
2 May 16
That sounds kinda creepy. It sounds like this guy and his friends are stalking you. You ought to throw them some red herrings. Just put some totally bogus things you are doing or getting ready to do and send them on a wild goose chase. Give them something to talk about. lol
@ricki_911 (19299)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 May 16
That is what Iam planning on doing . This guy was saying to my cousin how I am chasing him.I said I don't need to chase him far. Everyone has said he seems to be the one who chasing me. So I am going to post a pile of pictures with guys, and going out. This Friday and Saturday I am going out and having fun.
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@Frischy (119)
2 May 16
@ricki_911 You should post something like, "I'll see you all later! I'm going to the coffee shop. Bye!" Then don't go to the coffee shop. lol
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@ricki_911 (19299)
• Toronto, Ontario
2 May 16
@Frischy LMAO! I should. My friend said they started it first. When this guy and I started talking I had never told him where I worked (store, or location). I just said a pet food place, and his friend and him had been in my work, one night leaving work sitting in the parking lot. SO how many others times when I wasn't noticing it. The other night while we were out for coffee I knew they were there. His friend kept going up to the cash and looking at me. So I proceeded to talk about him and his ex how weird they were. I know he hates people judging him, and would get embarrssed. But then my friend did make a point. She goes if he wasn't interested (so last fall ish), he basically ignored me,blocked me, and then kept coming back, then would ignore me. I figured that was a hint right?. So why is he so weird when I am around. If I don't care what you think I would be nervous and ackward.