Would you be missed if you weren't here

@kevin1877uk (36619)
May 8, 2016 3:47pm CST
Would you be missed if you weren't here I was reading Jabo @jabo UK post about Wetnosedogs and it left me wondering if something happened to me would I be missed here. My kid’s no I’m online and do many things and I’ve spoken about mylot but nothing in depth. Most of the people I know in the real world don’t believe in online earnings. Maybe I should leave a note/letter saying if something did happen to me here are the websites and passwords need to access my accounts. Have you ever thought of doing that? I know many people don’t tell their family about being online, it’s left me thinking that is for sure and I will over the coming weeks put something together.
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@DaddyEvil (22934)
• Aurora, Missouri
9 May 16
I like to think people here would notice I am not here. I am positive several of them would worry about me. My daughter already knows what sites I use and she already has my passwords, since the passwords we use depends on the email address we use to open the account through. Each different site gets its own email address to keep things straight for me. Much easier that way. My daughter is PrettyEvil, or Pretty for short. She even knows which people to target if she ever does need to come here to let people know why I have been absent.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
11 May 16
Sorry with some many comments I've missed a few with how the website is. I'm glad someone knows you if you aren't here for any reason. I know we can't always be here, but most people whom I know are around a lot and if one disappeared for a length of time you begin to wonder what happened to them. I think it's a good idea to let someone to maybe write a post saying what happened to you or get in touch with someone so they can past the word around.
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@mommaj (22743)
• United States
11 May 16
@DaddyEvil You better not disappear or I will jump out of your bushes and give you a heart attack! LOL
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
11 May 16
@mommaj .. What were you doing in the bush anyway....
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@zebra2222 (4938)
• United States
9 May 16
I would not be missed for long since I receive very few comments on my postings. Still, perhaps a few people would wonder why I wasn't writing anymore.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
You may be surprised, then again you wouldn't be here to know lol, sorry.
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@ramapo17 (20068)
• Melbourne, Florida
9 May 16
@zebra2222 Why aren't you writing any more?
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• United States
9 May 16
I certainly would wonder although I am guilty @zebra2222 of not going to your page often enough to view or comment on what you have written, sorry about that
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@jaboUK (52061)
• United Kingdom
9 May 16
I wrote a post on this subject on Bubblews entitled 'If a Bubbler were to Die', and most of the responders on that said that they would be leaving their account details with someone, so that they could let us all know. It is worrying when someone just drops out of sight. My daughter has my details.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
I think I remember that and before then on Hubpages someone wrote a post like that too.
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@jaboUK (52061)
• United Kingdom
9 May 16
@ramapo17 What a good idea - I'm going to see if I can find a similar book. I do have some information written down for when I go, but nothing as comprehensive as what you describe.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
@ramapo17 Awesome idea, I really need to do that myself.
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@boiboing (12261)
• Northampton, England
8 May 16
Honestly? When I'm gone I won't care about any of this stuff.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
Lol I don't think you would really.
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@DaddyEvil (22934)
• Aurora, Missouri
10 May 16
But surely you have seen how some of us worry when someone has not been around for a while, right? Do you honestly believe people wouldn't notice that you were gone? Wouldn't care that you were gone? I would notice. Maybe not the first or second day, because I don't interact with you that often. But I am used to seeing you on some of the same posts I am on all the time. I would wonder and question if others knew where you had gone, if you were alright...
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@boiboing (12261)
• Northampton, England
10 May 16
@DaddyEvil I'm not sure if this is directed at me or Kevin (always a good idea to make that clear with tagging).
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@Asylum (48356)
• Manchester, England
8 May 16
People may notice a lack of insanity at times, but otherwise nobody would miss me.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
I think many people would miss you Barry
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@Asylum (48356)
• Manchester, England
8 May 16
@kevin1877uk I can almost hear the celebrations.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
@Asylum Lol surely not, I would miss you and your humour and I'm sure many other would too.
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@Bluedoll (16841)
• Canada
9 May 16
Yeah they would talk about me and say glad that person is no longer here.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
Aww maybe they won't.
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@DaddyEvil (22934)
• Aurora, Missouri
9 May 16
I beg to differ, @Bluedoll ! You are aware I care and would miss you! You saying something like that is the reason I was worrying about you earlier today, Blue. That is not how you usually speak. Something is wrong! I will be sending you a pm very shortly!
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
9 May 16
Why would anybody want to talk like that? Have you seen anybody being spoken of like that? So why would they make an exception out of you?
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@MALUSE (34603)
• Denmark
8 May 16
My husband isn't into computers and couldn't notify anyone. I hope I'd be missed but people but nobody would know any details. I'll have to think about that.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
I think over time people will start to think not seen ....... around and start to wonder what's happened.
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
9 May 16
You will be Maluse. Oshy was absent for a few days and I was kind of getting worried about her. Diana came and is again missing..concerns are there.
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@amadeo (54163)
• United States
8 May 16
Yes,you would Kevin.You will not be missed.No I am all set here.Mike knows everything what I do and have.HMMMM
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
That great news Mike knows.
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@ramapo17 (20068)
• Melbourne, Florida
9 May 16
I know I would be missed as I am probably one of the craziest people that some people know. I am always amazed at how serious people are and how they are never willing to do anything different. I have always been the clown when things need some fun and if someone needs a shoulder to lean on, I have always been that way. I do have a book with all my email addresses and passwords and I told my husband to get in touch with everyone if something happens. I was a Girl Scout, I am always prepared.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
That's a great idea to tell your husband to do that.
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@DaddyEvil (22934)
• Aurora, Missouri
9 May 16
You know I do worry when I don't see or hear from you in a little while, Dearheart! @ramapo17
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
9 May 16
We too had Girl's Guide we called them. :) Yeah the motto is "Be Prepared". :)
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@Dishari (701)
8 May 16
Perhaps I will be missed a bit. It's not that I have made many friends, but there are people who are aware of my existence, or may even have an opinion of me. I hope they remember!
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
But maybe given time you may do.
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@Dishari (701)
8 May 16
@kevin1877uk I hope so! People here are really warm but everything takes time. And it's been only a few days here.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
@Dishari Mylot is a wonderful place to be, so many wonderful people here.
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@TheHorse (56879)
• Pleasant Hill, California
11 May 16
None of my real-world people know about my activity here. If I got run over by a pickle truck, I guess I'd just disappear. Maybe @DaddyEvil would do some research and find the news story. I hope I'd be missed. There are a bunch of people I enjoy interacting with.
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@DaddyEvil (22934)
• Aurora, Missouri
11 May 16
pony, if you go missing, I promise I will be checking every site I know you use to find word of you. If that doesn't yield something then I will call your office and get answers from somebody... (Only partly joking with you. I WOULD search and find out what happened, even if I don't call your office and ask.)
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
11 May 16
@DaddyEvil Pony lol, awesome.
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@DaddyEvil (22934)
• Aurora, Missouri
12 May 16
@kevin1877uk You didn't know I call @TheHorse pony? I have since I met him eight or nine months ago.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
9 May 16
I think that is a good idea my family knows what I do online but they don't really understand although even so often they will say something like did you hear from or what did you write about today. lol lol
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
I don't think many people do understand outside of online, my family and friends don't even though I have tried to tell/explain but no they just don't get it.
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@Marcyaz (35954)
• United States
9 May 16
@kevin1877uk You are correct they don't seem to get it at all.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
@Marcyaz NO they don't, if only they did.
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@Tampa_girl7 (22720)
• United States
8 May 16
I hate when an online friend just disappears.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
Me too and not knowing what happened to them.
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@ramapo17 (20068)
• Melbourne, Florida
9 May 16
Me too.
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
9 May 16
I have been waiting for few friends for real long time.
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@Jessicalynnt (47882)
• Centralia, Missouri
9 May 16
I have actually, I would like someone to post up a final good bye, letting people know. then closing things.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
But we don't always know when things will happen.
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@ramapo17 (20068)
• Melbourne, Florida
12 May 16
@kevin1877uk That is the point. When it is unexpected we tend to get so emotional that we would have a hard time getting all the personal information together. If it is all together in a book, someone would be able to help us get through things better.
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• Centralia, Missouri
12 May 16
@kevin1877uk no, but if I left logins, and a list of places to post up at, I would like to think someone would do this for me, one could set it up in their will I suppose.
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@allen0187 (29079)
• Philippines
9 May 16
I don't think that I'll be missed. I haven't made that much of a mark on-line. I've thought about compiling all the websites that I'm active in and leaving my passwords to a trusted loved one but I still have second thoughts. Perhaps, in the future.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
Yeah maybe in the future which is a good idea.
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@allen0187 (29079)
• Philippines
10 May 16
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@kaka135 (13787)
• Malaysia
9 May 16
I did not tell much about my online work, but in recent years, I told my family about this work, as I really do earn some money from these online sites monthly. I have written down some login details for my husband, but not all. Perhaps I should really do that. Actually I am more concerned about my homeschooling programs, if I am not here, my husband has to take over the role, so I always plan to write out good lesson plans for him, organize things well for him, so he can just follow and continue to homeschool the children. Would I be missed? I guess all of us have some friends that would certainly miss us.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
Glad you have written some of you things down :) Yes I think we will be miss by at least some of the people here who have become friends with.
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@nanette64 (15552)
• Fairfield, Texas
9 May 16
I have done that (list) @kevin1877uk . I think there might be 1 or 2 here that might miss me. I know I'd miss you.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
Aww thank you, I sure many people would miss you, glad you have done your list
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@Corbin5 (89307)
• United States
8 May 16
I have thought of leaving the passwords to my sites so that family could take advantage of any money that may be coming to me. PayPal account info and more. Dang! I have to do this too.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
8 May 16
Yes to it, it does make sense to and I didn't or hadn't thought of it until just now so I'm going to be doing it myself.
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@toniganzon (44922)
• Philippines
9 May 16
I was thinking about this too when I woke up. I have been missing @oceantiara recently and was wondering what happened to her. Then I got a message telling me about her absence. I don't want to think something bad might happen to me and I'm not sure I'll be giving my son access to my sites. I guess I'll just disappear then and nobody would know.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
I'm in touch with Roz via email and she ok, family matters, Her Mom not well and was in hospital. She was here yesterday for a time. You would be missed, you are an active member.
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@toniganzon (44922)
• Philippines
9 May 16
@kevin1877uk Yeah she told me about her mom too. Maybe i'd be missed, but only for awhile then people will have to move on with their mylot life without even remembering i ever existed. That's reality.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
9 May 16
@toniganzon That is true, you would be missed for a time, like all of us really, that life and in many ways thats sad.
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
9 May 16
No...not sure who should have that responsibility. I mean dad is 82. I am 56. I don't want him to be hurting should I die before him. I don't want him to be writing to others and feeling sad. Will see, some technologies are there, and websites as well. After we die they send greetings and intimations. I will pay for anything like that I suppose.
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@kevin1877uk (36619)
11 May 16
I'm not saying if you were to die, I was saying if you weren't here for a length of time, maybe hospitalise or something had happened to you.
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@vandana7 (59118)
• India
11 May 16
@kevin1877uk .. Wouldn't you be happy to be free from a pest like me, even if the relief is only for a few days?
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@mommaj (22743)
• United States
11 May 16
@vandana7 I need an aspirin, you gave me a headache! I'd miss you.
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