A bit unsettled after hearing this

@allknowing (130066)
India
May 15, 2016 6:54am CST
I got a call from my niece informing me that her son's little fellow is diagnosed with autism. He is 3 years old. They are naturally devastated. The whole family needs to be there for him. They have a therapist already who spends time with him. They need to find out what his main interest is that is what an autistic child normally manifests. There is indeed no cure but with proper handling there could be some kind of solace for both the patient and family. Here is a link that tells you more
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
15 May 16
it's good that it was finally diagnosed and that the family is being proactive about it.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
The parents and so also the grandparents will leave no stone unturned.
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• Philippines
16 May 16
@allknowing i appreciate the inputs from those who worked with special needs children and how they fared. i'm glad we have a wide variety of supportive members here.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
@hereandthere That's great is it not?
@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 May 16
That is very sad. Luckily there is now a lot more known about the disorder. It is good that it has been diagnosed at such a young age.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
The parents will have to keep a close watch to find out the intricate details as I am told there are so many different symptoms.
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@JudyEv (325758)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 May 16
@allknowing It seems a very complex disorder which can manifest in many different ways. Some function quite well but others have a real battle.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
@JudyEv The parents are fully into it and hopefully they should be able to handle the situation to the best of their ability.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
15 May 16
It is a good thing that he has been diagnosed. There are many kinds of autism, and some can be successfully overcome. Do not lose hope.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
The parents are doing research on the Net as also consulting those in authority of this ailment.
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• Bucharest, Romania
15 May 16
Some people told me that I also suffer of autism.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
Sorry to hear that What are your symptoms.
@akalinus (40440)
• United States
15 May 16
It is a good thing that it was discovered early in life and that he is getting therapy. A lot more is known about Autism these days. There are also various degrees of Autism. Some children are non-verbal while others talk nonsense. A few high functioning children go on to graduate from college or write books. My son goes to a sheltered workshop and lives in a group home. He has done well for his abilities.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
This child has issues with his speech. He is sensitive to touch also. Anyway the parents are on the job.
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@DianneN (246819)
• United States
15 May 16
I'm so sorry. I've taught autistic children for years. No two are alike, and there is no cure. Early diagnosis is key!
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
The parents are working on it and since the mother is not working she will have all the time to deal with this.
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• Laguna Woods, California
15 May 16
I agree. One of our daughters is a special education teacher. Her favorite saying is "If you have met one autistic child, you have met one autistic child." In other words, no two are alike. Early therapy does make a meaningful difference, however.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
@DeborahDiane I did some search and you are right. The key is to find out that difference.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
15 May 16
Depending on how severe the autism is in this child some can lead normal lives even going to school but others never seem to be able to learn much of anything. I hope that this child can be helped and lead a fairly normal life.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
16 May 16
@allknowing Good that is exactly what is needed. You
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
Finding out his talent and working towards it is what the parents are doing.
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@vandana7 (98826)
• India
15 May 16
Sad that god should do that to small children. Hope they find a way out.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
I read through some causes and one of them is the exposure to toxic chemicals while the mother carries a child.
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• United States
15 May 16
I'm sorry. It will be a rough road, but I pray one that will be fulfilling for the whole family.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
You said it. Little success bit by bit will surely raise hopes.
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@jstory07 (134460)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 May 16
A lot of children with autism will go on to college and live good lives. There is now help for them.
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 May 16
I wish there was a cure for this. It seems like more and more people are diagnosed with it.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
There are so many ailments that are shying away from cures and autism is one of them.
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@DWDavis (25812)
• Pikeville, North Carolina
15 May 16
I know there are varying degrees of autism and have taught several high functioning autistic children who were excellent students. I have also known children who tested as autistic at a very young age who then showed no signs by the time they reached third or fourth grade. I will pray for your niece's son's little one.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
Hope that is what will happen in that as the child grows the symptoms will disappear. He is diagnosed with apraxia of speech (speech delay) and SPD (sensory processing disorder).thus far.
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• Dallas, Texas
15 May 16
At age 3, to be so seriously afflicted would be quite a shock, but better to get the diagnosis early so the best ways of dealing with it and working with the child can be arranged. I know people with different afflictions from childhood, one of them is called Dissassociative Personality Disorder, and the other is Elective or Selective Mutism. I have had first hand experience with these two disorders in our family. Sometimes a person will improve with age and learn to cope with whatever form it is manefested. Not all autism is extreme. Some cases are quite mild. Nonetheless it is a condition taken very seriously by professionals in Child Development with autism.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
The initial diagnosis is that the child is suffering from apraxia of speech (speech delay) and SPD (sensory processing disorder).
@DeborahDiane (40055)
• Laguna Woods, California
15 May 16
I know this info is devastating, but they are fortunate that he was diagnosed at age three. One of our daughters is a special ed teacher and she used to be an in-home therapist for autistic pre-schoolers. There are now therapies that can make a significant difference in the lives of many of these children. The parents need to learn how to use the techniques in-between therapy sessions, too. With the whole family working together, life could improve dramatically for this child.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
The child has a therapist and according to the mother the child is showing results. He used to be mortified for example when he saw a swing in motion but now he enjoys the ride.
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• Philippines
16 May 16
true. application and consistency is important and the mom being at home will help a lot.
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• Philippines
16 May 16
@allknowing that's very promising!
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@pumpkinjam (8540)
• United Kingdom
15 May 16
There may be no cure for autism but the best treatment is a loving and supportive family. I have an article in progress about autism but I can't seem to get it finished!! My son was diagnosed with autism when he was 3 (he's 10 now). I was not devastated, I was relieved. He's still the same child he was before the diagnosis. It's good that your niece has the support of a therapist already, and that the diagnosis has come now. I'm aware that it can be much harder if it's not discovered until later. With my son, I take certain things into account, I looked out for triggers and now recognise these. I don't use his autism as an excuse for him, he still has discipline. One mistake that some people make is to assume a child can't do/won't understand something because they are autistic. It may be true but it's often just about perseverance, and finding the right way for them. I think the two most difficult things I've found are: not being able to explain things to other people. Sometimes my son just can't handle the world, there are days he is fully alert and can do everything he needs to do without my input yet another day he'd need me to tell him to do everything in the tiniest of detail. The second thing is that, while a common trait of autism is that the child will fit into a routine and learn particular behaviours for particular occasions, there are going to be new territories or similar occasions where something a little (or a lot) different applies While my son was going through diagnosis, I was told that many people feel angry to be told their child has autism. As I said, I was simply relieved. It meant that I wasn't doing anything wrong, and that I had a starting point to get the help he needed. As I said, my son is 10 now. Most of the time, nobody would know that he's autistic. Of course, there are times when I'm reminded that he is or when he can be challenging but, with praise, discipline, perseverance, and a good support network, he's turning out quite well. :) Oh and my other half has autism. Unfortunately, he now suffers with other (unrelated) illnesses which means he's unable to work or do a lot of things he used to do. However, he's done a lot of things. He reached the rank of Captain in the British Army. He has two degrees (would have had a doctorate but his mind deteriorated before he could finish) and several other very good qualifications. He's travelled the world, and spent much of his life living alone (independently).
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
Thanks for your time. The mother has put out a note which clearly says that whoever visits should treat the child as normal. Both parents are highly educated and seem to have taken the right approach.
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@Lolaze (5093)
• St. Louis, Missouri
15 May 16
There are tons of new treatments and educational opportunities for kids with autism today. They need to get him as much treatment, as early in his life as possible for him to have the best chance. I wish them the best!
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
They are already at it.
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
16 May 16
There are no two autistic children who are alike. I know that there is no cure, but it's a good thing that he was diagnosed so young, at least they can help him.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
Each one I am told is different and as some have said if handled properly some turn out to be geniuses
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
@LadyDuck That is what it is but the therapists should be able to isolate the child's talent and focus on it. which is not easy at this young age sometimes.
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@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
16 May 16
@allknowing Most geniuses are "different". The fact to be fixed on a specific activity helps sometimes to become the autistic children specialists in something.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48956)
• United States
15 May 16
We have a friend who has 6 sons and two of them have autism.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
16 May 16
Each of those two boys must be having different symptoms. Hope they are handled well.
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• United States
15 May 16
bless there hearts. i'm glad that they've already gotten some help 's they struggle through.
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@just4him (306216)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 May 16
I hope it will all turn out okay for the family. My great granddaughter is going to be tested for autism when she turns 2.
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@allknowing (130066)
• India
20 May 16
I thought 3 years was early even 2 showing symptoms is quite disturbing.
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@just4him (306216)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
20 May 16
@allknowing It is, but the only thing we can do is love them.
@allknowing (130066)
• India
20 May 16
@just4him I think they get the most love from all around
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