Why I sometimes hate being female...

@slayer08 (2363)
Philippines
May 15, 2016 8:43am CST
Aside from the unpredictable mood changes because of hormones there's also the huge tendency to snowball over small, trivial things I often worry about. Small things like what to do, who I don't like and why, other women, bills, my husband, not having kids yet and if this is really the life I want, if not what else is there.. And a lot more.. I can get my mind clouded and my judgement impaired just by thinking too much. Then I get irritable at some thing that I shouldn't be bothered with. I worry about my hair, my make up, my clothes, and everything else and it's driving me crazy.. Talk about a woman's work.. Or should I say, talk about the traffic jam of thoughts that I've caused just by standing still.. I asked my husband once if he gets that way sometimes and it's a plain No, why should he? And I told myself, yeah why should I either? But then there's another passing moment and without further ado, my mind is once again packed with all the nonsensical things there is..
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@shaggin (36676)
• United States
18 May 16
I really do think it is a tendency of women to overthink. I do it a lot but then again I think a lot of the times I have reasons to.
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@JustBhem (32850)
• Davao, Philippines
17 May 16
Yeah like thinking too much that sometimes you make things worst and complicated.
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@antonbunot (9513)
• Calgary, Alberta
17 May 16
Once you have a beautiful baby, you surely thank God for creating you a pretty woman as shown in your profile photo . . .
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@zarlamain (24527)
• United States
15 May 16
Sometimes I hate being a woman when that time around the month comes around.
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@JohnRoberts (54567)
• Los Angeles, California
15 May 16
A man is not immune from dwelling on the minute and worrying over things. It's not restrictive to women.
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• Philippines
19 May 16
Mybe it's best to try to think of the blessings you have today and what you've got over the pass few years. I can't even get a girl friend and a stable job. you have some one in your life, a partner. and yeah, don't think too much for something beyond your control, only makes it worse.
@norcal (3215)
• Nevada City, California
18 May 16
I'm not sure that it's only women. I know plenty of men who have wild mood swings. Maybe your husband is just a calm person.