I feel single more and more each day..

@sharon6345 (105458)
United States
May 23, 2016 9:59pm CST
I have not felt as good as I feel right now. I am up watching tv and doing other stuff online. I was thinking all day and I think I come to realize I don't want to be in a relationship. I gave my all and got trompled on. I trust with my whole heart and get walked on. I think I feel so good because,I am going to sit someone down and be honest with them. It's been over a month since I seen him. I care less and less as the days go by. Tomorrow is the said date that he will be here. I really hope he does not make it. I could use a little more space to figure it all out. I am going to speak my mind and say if your going to need that kind of space I need to not be in a committed relationship. That way I am free to go on and not miss out of life. If he can decide that he will make better decisions when it comes to me then I am willing to wait as long as he needs me to. Time is drifting me away from him. He sent me a song tonight from my favorite singer. it was really nice. Those little things make me miss him.
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21 responses
@nanayangel (7691)
• Philippines
24 May 16
Hi Sharon! Moving on is one of the toughest things to do in life but it is also very rewarding. It is true that what doesn't break you will only make you stronger. I guess the test is how you feel when you are actually around him. It is true that you need time to heal but being around him will also help you assess your progress. I hope that everything works out for you.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
I am over the moon when he is around me.
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• Philippines
24 May 16
well,the freedom is amazing when you're single. I just realized this recently.
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@magallon (17113)
• Philippines
24 May 16
i agree. Being single is somewhat amazing. You have all the freedom in the world.
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• Philippines
24 May 16
@magallon not much obligation, except that i got four dogs, makes a bit of a parent too
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@magallon (17113)
• Philippines
24 May 16
@Letranknight2015 ... it's better to have dogs to feed than humans. Dogs accept any food that you give them without hesitations, humans do not. Even if you give them more still you can hear words of being dissatisfied.
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@jstory07 (57078)
• Roseburg, Oregon
24 May 16
I hope you get it all figured out. If he cares he wold be over seeing you all the time.
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@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
He gets busy with something time after time.
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@sugartoes (33558)
• Greencastle, Indiana
24 May 16
don't let him fool you as they are very good at things like that once they know what gets your heart turned up side down they use it to win you back & nothing changes it's ALL a front I know I've been there a time or 2 myself but put it all on the table.
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@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
I want to be with him. it just has been so long that I am slowly feeling less for him. he needs to talk to me about what he wants. Hopefully before I end up moving on.
@TheHorse (51278)
• Pleasant Hill, California
24 May 16
Sometimes I want to be in a relationship. Sometimes I don't. I never "settle."
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@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
I hear that as long as happiness is there I am willing for anything.
@Macarrosel (7643)
• Philippines
24 May 16
You must think it over and over before making major decision about that matter. If you're happy being single then go for it. If it's the other way around then ask for guidance to God above so that you can make the best decision. Good luck.
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@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
I don't need to talk to god about this. I need the man to talk to me. If he wants something else I am up for it if he just asks for it.
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@Teep11 (6430)
• United States
24 May 16
If it's toxic then space is needed. Perhaps he will turn around.It's very important that you be happy.Peace is a beautiful thing. Do what's best for you.
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@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
That is what I am going to do.
@carebear29 (25481)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
24 May 16
I wish I was single
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@magallon (17113)
• Philippines
24 May 16
Talk and clear things up.Be open about your real feelings. If love is really there and felt by each other, then, space and time will never be a problem.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
well I know I love him. he might be the one with the problem if so I can deal with that if he speaks to me about it.
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@magallon (17113)
• Philippines
24 May 16
@sharon6345 ... i'm sure time will come that he will open up and talk about it.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
@magallon Yes I do as well Thanks.
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@trivia79 (7945)
• El Segundo, California
24 May 16
are you happy with your current situation?
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
Not as it is but with the man sure.
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@trivia79 (7945)
• El Segundo, California
25 May 16
@sharon6345 your husband?
@Drosophila (16863)
• Ireland
24 May 16
One month seems to be a very long time to be away if you're in the same location.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
Yes we are and it's killing me.
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@Drosophila (16863)
• Ireland
24 May 16
@sharon6345 what's the cause of this?
@marguicha (80075)
• Chile
24 May 16
There are good things about being single and good things about being in a realtionship. But anyway it is important to have our spaces.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
That is why am going to try moving on.
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@marguicha (80075)
• Chile
24 May 16
@sharon6345 I hope you can do it with little pain as possible.
@EddieHands (32042)
• United States
24 May 16
Wow well hope things get better for you in your love.. and hope you can work things out in the end! Blessings
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
yes I am going to enjoy living the single life.
@marlina (60412)
• Canada
24 May 16
Be very careful.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
I will do that.Thanks so much.
@rusty2rusty (6747)
• Defiance, Ohio
24 May 16
He needs to make up his mind what he wants to do. That way you are not sitting and pining for something that may never happen. I never understand why people string each other along. It is so much easy to be honest. Yes, it hurts but at least being honest you can have a good cry if need be and start to move on to be happy. I think it hurts worse the longer someone strings someone along about not wanting the same things.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
Yes hopefully time heals it all up for me.
@MGjhaud (20811)
• Philippines
24 May 16
follow your heart Sharon without compromising your happiness and stress free life
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
That is what i want so bad..
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• United States
24 May 16
It's good to enjoy being single. Good luck in talking to him.
@sharon6345 (105458)
• United States
24 May 16
I don't want to be single I will just not be in a committed relationship.
@firman32 (44)
25 May 16
hang out with your friend, so you do not feel single anymore. friends can solve your lonely
• Philippines
24 May 16
It is really good to be single specially if that person care less for you. In my case if he wanted to see the kids fine if not then the better if he does not show up at all
@Marcyaz (36126)
• United States
24 May 16
Do those little things make up for the big ones that he misses. Maybe you should not waste your time on him any longer and move on with your life.