Did Someone Ruin Your Day?

Philippines
May 26, 2016 8:18pm CST
What would you do if someone ruin your day? Instead of having a smooth flow accomplishing your goals for the day, someone did something to make you so frustrated. Will you be angry or just ignore and direct your emotions into a constructive one like just staying in myLot for a lot of hours and pouring your emotions here? What do you do in such circumstances? Do you eat, walk,go out, go to social media, etc.
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@carebear29 (23686)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
27 May 16
My husband always ruins my day honestly. HE is nothing but a jerk. If he's not having a good day, then no one else is allowed to
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27 May 16
Aw! Reminds me of my mom
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• Philippines
27 May 16
Could you find a way to avoid him? Hope you can tolerate it for so long.
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• United Kingdom
27 May 16
hate it when people are like that.. but if you think he is a jerk, why are you with him?
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@sol_cee (12086)
• Japan
27 May 16
I'm gonna take a deep breath, count from 1 to 10 and think that it's still a long day for me to be upset. Positive things are most likely to happen.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
So good you can do it without ranting! Indeed there are negative things that we should ignore because life is still beautiful in spite of all those glitches.
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@sol_cee (12086)
• Japan
27 May 16
@acelawrites I rant! And kick the door too. lol
@polyxena (2597)
• Sturgis, Michigan
27 May 16
I unusually just write, and direct my anger and frustration into characters that aren't real.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
It is good, you can have topics for your story; turning a negative situation into a positive one.
@polyxena (2597)
• Sturgis, Michigan
27 May 16
@acelawrites Very true
@nitsbubb (257)
• New Delhi, India
27 May 16
I think I just go outside and ignore that person!
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• Philippines
27 May 16
I do it sometimes, but if they were not here, and the mess they made ruin my day, I could not but rant inside our house when my husband is here to listen; shock absorber! ha ha ha!
@Macarrosel (7654)
• Philippines
27 May 16
I just go to sleep . Kidding aside, well, I take a deep breath, pray hard and trying myself to be more positive, and always think, maybe there's a good reason behind this.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
That's a nice tactic, yes, we just let things as it is because God or fate might have a reason why it happened.
@JudyEv (90140)
• Bunbury, Australia
27 May 16
I read once about people can't ruin your day - you actually LET them ruin your day. Easier said than done but something to think about.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
I agree, it is easier said than done when they had done something that rouses your anger. It is hard not to show emotions.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
I really try my best to control myself when ever unforseen situation happens. but there are moments were anger and frustration gets teh best of me. I felt I've not matured every time I get into that situation.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
You could not blame yourself when you can not control your anger/emotions. Humans are not perfect when confronted with such negative situations.
@Drosophila (16886)
• Ireland
28 May 16
Oh I just return the favour and ruin their day... No one has been able to ruin my day for a long time now. Well maybe one..but he's gone for now
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• Philippines
28 May 16
Ha ha! Getting a dose of their own medicine!
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@Drosophila (16886)
• Ireland
28 May 16
@acelawrites yes, am a firm believer in "do unto others, how they do to you".. when situation like this arises..
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• Philippines
30 May 16
@Drosophila that's nice!
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• United States
27 May 16
To keep in my mind that no one or nothing can actually ruin my day is to realize, only I and my perception of things might . . . so obviously changing the perception and sticking to my gut NOT to ne affected by someone else's woes, usually helps a lot ! Have a great better rest of your day
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• Philippines
27 May 16
It is a strong characteristic when you can not let other people's woes affect you; and one of my weakest points because I tend to get my feet on their shoes; can easily absorb their negative vibes.
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• United States
27 May 16
@acelawrites sounds like you are a wonderful empath ! Try and have a great Memorial celebration be safe
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@toniganzon (37300)
• Philippines
27 May 16
I rant but not in myLot anymore. I have a friend I could tell everything to and he keeps my secret as well. Then I go out smile and make my day productive.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
You have such a nice friend whom you can trust with your secrets. Friends like that are like gems.
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@toniganzon (37300)
• Philippines
27 May 16
27 May 16
I usually rant on facebook lol! But I filter my shout outs. I dont want the whole world to have something to feast on.And when I've finally calmed down I delete my post.Sometimes, I rant here on mylot.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
I could not rant in Facebook because of so many relatives and friends there. But I rant in a blog site though I wanted to delete it because they might read it since they know my pen name.
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27 May 16
@acelawrites that is why i filter my posts hihihi
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• Riverside, California
27 May 16
When people effect my day, it effects my mood. I tend to be very angry when someone tries to put a damper on my day. I will give people the silent treatment in order to avoid confrontations as well. If I am attempting to make myself feel better, I usually go on a walk.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
It is wise to be silent to avoid skirmishes with people that ruined your day. Walking is best because it is healthful.
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• Riverside, California
27 May 16
@acelawrites Walking kicks up my endorphin's. It helps ease my mind for a small amount of time. :)
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@Teep11 (6254)
• United States
30 May 16
Sometimes there's someone trying to ruin all our days. Meditation and prayer helps.
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• Philippines
30 May 16
It is true, there are people who find happiness in making other people down. Yes, prayer works.
• United Kingdom
27 May 16
It's good to get out for a walk, I tend to shut myself away for a while and go to sleep Coming to myLot would be a good one. As well as venting anger you earn some money
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• Philippines
27 May 16
Walkingis really good, it can release happy hormones; so with blogging on myLot, with dual purpose of venting and earning.
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@meowch (1008)
• United States
27 May 16
My friend almost always ruin my day. But I direct my emotions in something constructive. I would play wii tennis (since it is competitive, I would yell at my opponent to release anger), I listen to music (rap, anthing trance), and play brainwars app (I feel better afterwards since I beat the person in the game). If those doesn't help I just ignore the person and I sleep.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
So good you can redirect your emotions by playing those games. Nice one indeed!
@MGjhaud (20833)
• Philippines
27 May 16
i dont let anybody ruin my day, especially those people i do not know of.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
If I don't know the person, I will also ignore him.
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@dwstory (969)
• Roseburg, Oregon
27 May 16
I try and ignore that person.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
It is the best thing to do; just to ignore him.
@ida123 (6290)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
27 May 16
when someone ruins my day, i just leave mylot because our emotions can be affected and can't concentrate of what i'm doing
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• Philippines
27 May 16
So you can not write here when you are upset? That is understandable because at times we can not think well when we are emotional.
@sharon6345 (98373)
• United States
27 May 16
I cried my eyes out after I left here.
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• Philippines
27 May 16
Crying do really lighten our heart's load.
@Hatley (152028)
• Garden Grove, California
27 May 16
I usually come here and rant and write and cry on your shoulders and get\rid of my anger and try to laugh it off
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• Philippines
27 May 16
That is the best thing here on myLot, we can have a platform that we can share our emotions. It can make us laugh when reading funny posts or funny limericks from the likes of @Jabo, etc.