Have you ever felt ignored and lonely ?

@ajithlal (14569)
India
May 30, 2016 11:11pm CST
Sometimes some friends or people might ignore us in our life and we might feel lonely. Have you ever felt ignored and lonely and what do you do in such situation?
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@Amel94 (1741)
• Serbia
31 May 16
I felt like that a lot of times when was a teen. I still feeling lonely a lot of time, but I kind a love to be alone sometimes.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
You might be enjoying loneliness.
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@Amel94 (1741)
• Serbia
31 May 16
@ajithlal Sometimes I do..
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 Jun 16
@Amel94 I do like walking when I feel lonely especially some place there are lots of trees and birds.
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@zarlamain (24885)
• United States
31 May 16
Sure. I just don't think much of it. If it was when I was still a timid high school student, I would've cried about it, but now I don't even care.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
Most probably it is good to have have this kind of attitude and to spend time with people who love us in our life.
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@zarlamain (24885)
• United States
31 May 16
@ajithlal Definitely. I try not to make a big deal out of being ignored.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 Jun 16
@zarlamain Sometimes it hurts feeling like an alien in the groups ignored by friends and even if we talk nobody seems to be listening.
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@toniganzon (53346)
• Philippines
31 May 16
I find somebody else who doesn't ignore me.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
Some people do continue doing it ignoring us and treating us aliens and it would be good to find someone who does not do it.
@toniganzon (53346)
• Philippines
31 May 16
@ajithlal I don't allow people to have that satisfaction. If they ignore me, I ignore them. I don't have time for those who can't give time for me.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
@toniganzon Sometimes I do try my best to get their attention even if they ignore me and most times I do feel sad when they ignore me.
@cherigucchi (4866)
• Philippines
31 May 16
No one is exemption in this situation
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
I thought it happens only with me.
@MALUSE (43422)
• Uzbekistan
31 May 16
@ajithlal This is not a good way of thinking. Everything you can imagine has already happened to zillions of people. Have you ever thought of making the first step and starting a relationship?
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
@MALUSE No matter how hard we tried to make some people happy they still make us depressed and I have seen some friends only making friendship when they need us.
• China
31 May 16
yeah. i have been through the two situations... i always consider myself not good enough so that others ignore me. so i will fullfil myself to make me important while i am lonely,i would go outside running to distract my attention to the " lonely", also it is able to meet new friends then everything will change!
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@MALUSE (43422)
• Uzbekistan
31 May 16
"I always consider myself not good enough so that others ignore me..." It's high time you worked on your self-confidence! Maybe professional help is advisable.
@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
I need to work on my self-confidence. I do feel sometimes I am not good enough and that is the reason people ignore me.
@hillwill (1000)
• China
31 May 16
it's very simple, everybody has his own life, just adjust it, do what you want to do,when you fell lonely.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
Sometimes I feel lonely among some friends.
@LadyDuck (175653)
• Switzerland
31 May 16
I have never been "ignored" by people I love. When someone ignores me, I move on and ignore that person too.
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
It is always nice to have people who respect you and also care for you. Now a days some people look what they can benefit from friendships and if they see they do not gain anything they do just try to ignore or try to show they are less interested in friendships.
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@Sunspear (17)
• Yantai, China
31 May 16
I think maybe it is a kind of skill you need to get in a long term . Talking to yourself and learning from your own heart .
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
31 May 16
I would try to talk to myself and also try to develop the skill in finding the right friendships.
@sabashekh (1231)
• Bhopal, India
31 May 16
Yea lonely but never ignored .. My friends never make Me feel ignored .. Yea lonely coz friendships are long distance but never ignored
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@ajithlal (14569)
• India
1 Jun 16
Nice to to have good friends who makes one feel happy.
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@chris2050 (1342)
• Manila, Philippines
31 May 16
A friend of mine took me to his house, to have a dinner with other of his friends. What I didn't know is that they don't like black people. Throughout the meal, we were 7 in the table, and for about two hours, they kept talking to each other, and nobody noticed my presence, I wasn't understanding what is going on, so I asked my friend who brought me over: "Am I invisible to your guests?", and he responded: "Sorry, but they don't like Blacks" I continued eating my food, I put earphones, and started listening to music, 30 mins later, I excused myself and left. When people ignore you, just leave that place
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@MGjhaud (20672)
• Philippines
31 May 16
i feel lonely sometimes but not ignored.
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@sharon6345 (137787)
• United States
31 May 16
Yes I been feeling that way for a few months now. It's not easy to deal with but I am doing better each day. Today I did not cry one time. I decided to get on my treadmill when I begin to feel anything other then good.
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@star777 (43)
2 Jun 16
well, i guess everybody feel that sometime in their life. Watch a movie or listen to songs and let it go.
1 Jun 16
I find that life gets busy some times. I have friends who are good when I push to hang out with them. However they rarely find time to see me because they are busy too. I always make an effort though. Because everyone feels lonely and sometimes need a little push. If they refuse to ever see you, maybe you need to reach out to more people.
@itsmejing (607)
31 May 16
@ajithal i felt that many time at the office, i get used to it, i just kept quiet my i really felt so sad.
• India
31 May 16
I faced this loads of time, my heart trampled and crushed all the time by my so called friends. Due to this I have developed this habit of not letting people in.Whenever I feel anyone becoming my friend i would start maintaining distance eventually they too stopped making efforts.This has led people to believe I am an arrogant person, what they don't know this is my defence mechanism.Earlier I used to do this unconsciously and then one day someone pointed out my odd behaviour which led me to think about my actions and ended up with this conclusion that I just explained.Don't follow my lead because I used to do this unconsciously and ended up lonely.Although its difficult, but I m now trying to change by giving others and myself a chance to become friends.
• India
31 May 16
I faced this loads of time, my heart trampled and crushed all the time by my so called friends. Due to this I have developed this habit of not letting people in.Whenever I feel anyone becoming my friend i start maintaining distance eventually they too stop making efforts.This has led people to believe I am an arrogant person, what they don't know this is my defence mechanism.If I get emotionally entangled with anyone i m surely going to be made a fool.
@shamish (202)
31 May 16
I always feel like that.
31 May 16
Yes., I felt I was ignored by my friends several times and think still I am. Notwithstanding, I have never been shattered by this. It's my family (Mom), who remains my strength enhancer that keeps me bold for ever, even I failed 1000 times. In fact, the loneliness let me explored the hidden stuff that I have in myself.
31 May 16
As we are growing, our life is changing, our preferences change because of which the people around us change...So the people who once were your friends try to ignore you because it might be that you are not the person they want to be with...Everyone feels bad when things like this happens no one wants to be lonely...Its not just with human beings, it's with animals and plants also...You can try it if you want keep a plant alone away from other plants,it will start drying up...When it starts drying up keep it with other plants it will become healthy again...So my friend if they change towards you and ignore you because changing is a part of life then they were not your true friends...So in order to be healthy make new friends leave those who ignore you in the past and move on in your life :)