Would you forigive if someone cheated on you?

Australia
November 25, 2006 12:23am CST
Yes or no, and why do you choose that response?
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35 responses
@kawillow74 (1417)
• United States
25 Nov 06
no way it is unforgiveable leave if you don't love that person and if you love that person you would not cheat.
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@isha900 (1460)
• India
25 Nov 06
no i cant do this
@srkool (1012)
• India
25 Nov 06
no
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• Australia
25 Nov 06
Okay, that's fine, thanks for your opinion and time to reply. Hope to hear from you again soon
• United States
25 Nov 06
It depends on the situation, but if I had to pick one response...I would say yes. Everyone is entitled to make mistakes. If I choose to spend my life with someone, there was obviously a good reason for it. I doubt I would throw that all away for just one slip. Now, if there were more heinous acts involved...that would change things. If the affair was ongoing. If this was the culmination of repeated disrespect or disloyalty. That kind of stuff.
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• Australia
25 Nov 06
Yeah, I agree with that without a doubt - Great response, I rate everyone who replies to my discussions + I will mark you as best reponse!
@joepicat (113)
• United States
25 Nov 06
depends on what they did and who it was if it was bf then no some random dude and it was one date sure i guess so.
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• Australia
25 Nov 06
Cool cool, I love to hear all opinions and it is good that you forgiving - but be careful! :D
@koushika (693)
• India
25 Nov 06
as for me, it depends entirely on the subject onehas cheated, if the reason is related to his personal cause rather than mine, i may forgive whether or not he repents, if he cheats nad hurts my personal feelings and principles or on moral values...i cannot forgive him, until unless i believe he is really changed and he fully repents on his previous deeds...
• Australia
25 Nov 06
Very very good - I would agree to that to a point - it sucks that I am too forgiving and keep getting it happened to me however the guy I am currently with just celebrated an anniversary, and I know he is going no where
@anne_143god (5390)
• Philippines
25 Nov 06
Yeah as long as he will ask forgiveness.
• Australia
25 Nov 06
That's a very good point! I rated you +
@Pigglies (9340)
• United States
25 Nov 06
No. I clearly state at the beginning of a relationship that I will not cheat and I will not tolerate cheating. If she wants to try out someone else, she has to leave me first.
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• United States
31 Jan 07
I think it would really depend on the circumstances and the relationship. If the person who cheated didn't feel any remorse, I couldn't imagine forgiving them, but sometimes things happen between couples that push them apart and make communication feel impossible.
• United States
31 Jan 07
I have done it in the past. Depends on the situation. I would prefer it though to have a faithful partner. It hurts alot to be cheated on.
• Singapore
26 Nov 06
Never!
@jade17901 (597)
• United States
26 Nov 06
It all depends on the situation. If he was sick,drinking and was very sorry then I prob would
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I have been cheated on before, I left him. I couldn't stand the sight of him. I wanted to hurt him so badly.
• Nigeria
25 Nov 06
Yes, I would frogive as long as the cheating stops.
@1login (368)
• Finland
25 Nov 06
Yes, as time as I love him. Well, it´s a metter of love I belive, of relationship duration also.
• United States
25 Nov 06
I think that if they do it once, and ask for forgiveness, and say that they are sorry, they should be forgiven, but if they do it a second time, they are dumped, for thats just uncalled for.
• United States
25 Nov 06
probabty not because they say once a cheater always a cheater
@tildy12 (760)
• United States
25 Nov 06
yes cause the lord said u must forgive and forget
• India
25 Nov 06
No never. someone cheating should be punished nicely
@mirage108 (3403)
• United States
25 Nov 06
maybe once, and I would have to hear all the circumstanses before I would forgive.
• India
25 Nov 06
i would forgive but it depends on the nature of the froud.. some time it becomes inavetable to cheat.. so before taking any decision i would analise well