is it better to have a live in maid or one who leaves at the end of the day?

@stephjoy (761)
Philippines
June 5, 2016 11:12am CST
i am terrified of live in maids, after i experience once when we are out of my husband in whole day and when we came home. shes gone and our room was so mess. yes she is thief. my piggy bank was gone. I am really in trauma of having that kind of maid. and now i just gave birth and need to have a helper in the house. i am thinking to have a helper who leaves at the end of the day.
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@zarlamain (24884)
• United States
5 Jun 16
In Bangladesh, it's part of the culture to have live in maids if you can afford them. In America, it's more common to have one that leaves after a session. There's some wealthy people around here who have live in maids.
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@stephjoy (761)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
oh i see..yeah i guess here in my country its just the same salary if live in mad or not
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@zarlamain (24884)
• United States
6 Jun 16
@stephjoy They provide housing and food, so not bad.
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@stephjoy (761)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
@zarlamain yes you are right
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@Chungshop (2363)
5 Jun 16
Live in young maid is a problem maid lo You can look for part time maid, every morning maid (3 to 4 hrs), once a week maid lo Do have video maid lo
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@stephjoy (761)
• Philippines
5 Jun 16
yeah you are right
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@Chungshop (2363)
5 Jun 16
@stephjoy Video maid lois live in maid only
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@stephjoy (761)
• Philippines
5 Jun 16
@Chungshop yeah to see their actions
@gr8nana6 (2190)
• United States
6 Jun 16
I never ever had a maid, live-in or otherwise. I took care of my household and children by myself.
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@stephjoy (761)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
nice..since before when you have a little kids?
@MGjhaud (20671)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
when my nephews nanny left, we struggled a bit. plus it was so hard to find one. when someone(neighbor) came, she couldnt stay at home because of her kids which is not desirable cause i need someone to wake up and feed the boy in the middle of the night. im sorry about your bad experience but i do hope you find someone you can trust.
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@stephjoy (761)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
i see..thanks for sharing your thoughts
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