June 8, 2016 4:15am CST
We all know how to love. We all know what's the feeling of being hurt because of the people we love. Sometimes we're on the stage that we just want to forget someone because we have too, because it just really hurt, even though we know we cannot totally forget them. There are questions that confuse me. After the special person in our life hurt us and we can finally say that we moved on, do we really learned how to unlove or we still love them but we don't feel the lonelyness and sadness without them? What do you think?
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8 Jun 16
When we're in love with someone, we magnify their good qualities and ignore or more often are blind to their bad side. Sometimes we're not really in love with the person but in love with the idea of being in love. We idealize the situation and put the object of our affection on a very unrealistic pedestal.Then everything comes crashing down and we return to our senses. But sometimes we don't, and that's the hurt that still lingers on.
8 Jun 16
I've read something that said "you can't stop loving someone. You either still love them or you never did". But by "still love them" I think it just mean that you will prefer him/her rather than other people, but they're not the ones you love the most. Probably like more than friends but less than a lover.