Why is it so that good guys never get a loyal partner?

June 9, 2016 3:42am CST
Experience speaks volumes. The more a boy/man is simple and loyal, the more he is prone to get dominated and cheated. He will put his everything in relationship but will get a scar for lifetime.
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@chris2050 (1335)
• Manila, Philippines
9 Jun 16
Because good girls don't go for nice guys. It has bee scientifically proven that women prefer "Alpha Men", Nice guys are easy to tame, they are boring, and they offer no challenge. Most girls will claim that they want a nice man, but most are not looking for him, so when you are a nice guy, and you invest too much in the relation, chances are, you won't make it...
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10 Jun 16
That's so true @chris2050
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• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 16
Girls! they act very smartly but forget it's a love of that simple guy.
9 Jun 16
yea, that's true at times Yogesh
• New Delhi, India
9 Jun 16
@ShivamChauhan do you ever cheated by any girl ever?
10 Jun 16
@ModernDayWriter Very personal question. Yes. 5 times. And the irony- each time by the same girl.
• Raipur, India
10 Jun 16
Okay so that's just a mindless generalization. How many girls do you know ? A crore? Two crore? Even if you know that many girls it's just peanuts as compared to the population of girls in our country. Loyalty is a personal trait. If you think gender has anything to do with it you seriously need to grow up. Just because you had a bitter experience that doesn't means each one and every one of us are cheaters. Bottom line is both men and women cheat. It's not a gender specific thing. I personally know a lot of men who happen to sleep with other woman though they are married! So does that gives me the right to say all men are cheaters and rapists?
10 Jun 16
@Blue_bubble Oh Wow! "I personally know a lot of men who happen to sleep with other woman though they are married!" Does this statement of yours not directly indicates that the women those men were sleeping with, were also cheaters? At least you can watch your words before writing. Second, I have clearly mentioned "good guys". And you have turned the topic towards a generalized gender when you typed "all men are cheaters and rapists". You please better get aware of the discussion first. Third, ok; I don't know a thousand girls. But did you study the link provided by Christian Samuel here in this post? If not, go through that scientific study. That has been conducted on thousands. May be they get cheated because girls like qualities that are better found in "alpha man" rather than a simple guy; maybe they are more attracted to bad boys; in which case the topic goes nowhere near a girl's "loyalty". I am not saying that all girls/women are cheaters. I am saying why "good guys" are prone to such mishappenings. Did anywhere I mention "girls cheat boys"? If not, then you better understand the topic first instead of taking it personally as if you are the sole representative of women on an international platform.
• Raipur, India
10 Jun 16
@ShivamChauhan Firstly do you think a man sleeping with another woman would be honest about his marriage? They lie about being unmarried mostly. And secondly you seriously need to improve your analytical skills I clearly said "Does that give me the right to say all men are cheaters and rapist?" . That's what I was saying I can't say all men are like that just because few of them are bad. And thirdly ever studied statistics? A study is based on a sample being representative of a population.So you are trying to judge the entire population based on a sample. So I don't go by studies mindlessly everytime. Some studies show studying during night improves your efficiency,some show studying in the morning improves your efficiency.Then another study said all woman are either bisexuals or homosexuals,a woman cannot ever be entirely straight.Results can differ from study to study. So relying on some random study bluntly is the stupidest thing to do.
11 Jun 16
@Blue_bubble First thing, I don't think women are so dumb that they can't differentiate between a married and an unmarried man. And if they are enjoying a physical relationship with any random man without even knowing about him, don't you think they are equally wrong? Second, I am a post-graduate in statistics. So, I know better than what you can teach me. And if you too have studied it, you must be knowing that we, the students of stats, always treat the entire population based on that sample study. We can't reach every citizen of every country to conduct our studies on them. You are definitely right when you said we can't trust any random study. I agree with you on this point. But all what I wanted to tell you was, that study "May" be an answer for the question we are discussing. And where did I or the study said that women are wrong/morons/stupid? Study proved its an instinct favourable to women. Its not what they do deliberately. I think you have misunderstood that I wanted to say "Women are cheaters". No. What I wanted to figure out was, "Why most of the girls don't fall for nice or simple guys?" And that is a fact, a proven fact. It doesn't mean in anyway that girl's/women are born cheaters. Please don't misunderstand my words.
@unisa000 (67)
9 Jun 16
I think to be in an honest relationships is a matter of luck. Specially nowadays with all the mobile apps, it makes easier to cheat.
10 Jun 16
@unisa000 Yes this new technology has ruined so many relationships. Some people are like, "Oh! You didn't reply me in a minute; I am single now. Lol..
@maezee (31945)
• United States
9 Jun 16
This is sad. Hopefully stuff like this does not happen very often.
9 Jun 16
@maezee My views differ. I suppose its more likely to happen. May be not in your country, but in my country, a trend as such is common.
• India
9 Jun 16
It happens with both the genders.I have recently seen a case where a simple girl not so good looking but very loyal was dumped by her boyfriend for a more attractive girlfriend whom he could show off in front of his friends.No need to feel disheartened, just look around maybe your perfect someone is someone you have overlooked or friendzoned.
9 Jun 16
Well I think I don't need to rush in order to find a new love now. I have realised the very fact that in order to keep your integrity, you need to raise your standards and deny every single person who does not respect your standards. Being alone, and enjoying it, is better than falling for a wrong person just because you have "Lowered" your standards to let them in.
@MALUSE (39072)
• Germany
9 Jun 16
On how many examples do you base your claim?