~Unexpected Company~

Valdosta, Georgia
June 18, 2016 4:37pm CST
So...our friend that I told all of you about-Sabrina is finally done with her abusive husband-we think anyway. He put his hands on her, tried not letting her leave, broke their bedroom door, knocked her on the floor and ripped the handle off her purse! They got into a fight over our trip to NC that we are taking. I am feeling really bad that it was about us going on the trip together. =( I told her I felt guilty since it was about that and she told me not to because it could have happened over anything. So for tonight at least her and the kids are staying at our house. We love them to pieces and I am really glad their safe. You never know what will happen from one day to the next though so we will see what happens...
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@sallypup (57836)
• Centralia, Washington
18 Jun 16
Safe house for her and the kids is what comes to my mind. And lock that interesting creep up.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@sallypup Yeah I am just glad their safe for now and I hope she sticks with leaving him.
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@MGjhaud (23166)
• Philippines
19 Jun 16
I hope she'll be firmed this time. Im glad she got out in time.
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@MGjhaud (23166)
• Philippines
19 Jun 16
They have kids right? i hope she'll consider them too, not just her feelings.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jun 16
@MGjhaud Yes she has 2 children. I think she's serious this time-I hope so anyway.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@MGjhaud I really hope so too. She doesn't need to put any of them back in that situation again.
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@Juliaacv (48397)
• Canada
19 Jun 16
Hopefully they will be safe with you tonight and she can maintain the strength that she needs to get away from him.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@Juliaacv Yeah I am praying that she sticks with her choice and doesn't go back this time.
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
Hope she really is. And they are safe in your house :)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@Lucky15 I hope so too. Yes they are safe here.
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@Amel94 (1741)
• Serbia
18 Jun 16
I remember your post about that friend - Sabrina. I am so sorry that she got through such a horrible situations but I am glad that she leaved him. Don't feel guilty, he was a bad husband anyway, she would leave him in some other situation.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@Amel94 Thank you. I am glad she left too-she needed to long before now but better late than ever.
@Babs0630 (487)
20 Jun 16
I hope she ends up staying gone from him! If not we really have to do some major talking to this woman! I really love her to pieces and I know u do to!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jun 16
@Babs0630 So far she is sticking with leaving for good-we will see though. When he put his hands on her she said that was the last straw.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jun 16
@Babs0630 I hope so too.
@Babs0630 (487)
20 Jun 16
@LovingMyBabies good im glad hopefully she will stick with it!
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
19 Jun 16
I hope that this is finally the last straw for her with him and his abusive ways. You have nothing to feel guilty about, he is the guilty one.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
20 Jun 16
@LovingMyBabies I sure hope she is done with him this time before he seriously injures or kills her.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Jun 16
@Marcyaz Yeah I think it was the last straw since he put his hands on her. She is bruised in a few places from him. I think she is done for real this time but time will tell.
@Shellyann36 (11385)
• United States
27 Jun 16
@LovingMyBabies I hope your friend does the right thing and stays away from her husband. A few years ago when I helped my friend out she went right back to him the very same day. My kids and I moved all of her stuff into storage and set her up here at the house..... Worked all day in the rain and had to deal with her crazy bf and the cops for her to turn around and go right back to him the exact same night.
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@rebelann (111159)
• El Paso, Texas
26 Jun 19
It's a shame when someone just won't do whats best for themselves.
@koopharper (7477)
• Canada
19 Jun 16
Glad she's out of there and hope she's smart enough not to go back. I would have felt bad too.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@koopharper Yeah I hope so too. She needed to get out of there.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48926)
• United States
19 Jun 16
Be careful. That husband sounds dangerous.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@Tampa_girl7 He is scared of my husband so I am not worried at all. Lol
@akalinus (40440)
• United States
18 Jun 16
This is not the same S that was living with you before? I am glad you can give people a safe haven. There are so many problems in the world.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@akalinus No this is not the same person at all. Lol. Yeah she's been through a lot with her abusive husband.
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@JudyEv (325696)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Jun 16
I hope the husband doesn't come creating trouble at your house.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@JudyEv He doesn't want to do that since he's afraid of my husband.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
19 Jun 16
Hope she can get away from that abusive husband (or how's that?) It is good you took care of them but be careful also of what he might do when he shows up.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@acelawrites He's not going to come here since he is scared of my husband. He's only a tough guy when it comes to hitting women.
@itsmejing (606)
19 Jun 16
we will pray that she will be safe..
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@itsmejing Thank you for the prayers-she needs them.
@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
24 Jun 16
Someone like that can go off over the slightest thing. If it hadn't been that it would likely be something else. I am glad she and her kids are safe with you for now.
@AmbiePam (85447)
• United States
18 Jun 16
I hope she sticks with her decision. I'm going to add you guys to my prayer list. You're being the support I'm sure they desperately need.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@AmbiePam I really hope so too! She has stuck with him for too long. Thank you for the prayers. =)
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@Elizaby (6902)
• Pensacola, Florida
24 Jun 16
She really needs to be in a place where he will not know where she is at for her and your safety too as he could watch the house and come when your husband is not there. And the "safe houses" will also have resources and councilors to help your friend
@paigea (35678)
• Canada
1 Jul 16
I hope she can get on her feet. You are so kind to help her.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
21 Jun 16
thanks God! good to know that! at least they are now safe in your hands :)
@NJChicaa (115983)
• United States
18 Jun 16
I hope she is finished with him. No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Jun 16
@NJChicaa I hope so too. She deserves so much better.
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