Lost a friend...good

@carebear29 (28941)
Wausau, Wisconsin
June 21, 2016 10:43pm CST
I lost a friend today over her drama lieing bull today. She went and told my husband that I was dating one of our friends when I am clearly not. Mind you last night she wanted me to tell her boyfriend for her it was over and now she is like all protecting him and crap. My husband doesn't believe her since we all think she is jealous of me having it made. Another thing is is she is lesbian (no judge.) I am so irritated with her right now I just not going to take her back as a friend anymore if she comes running back again. My husband knows this is going to bother me for awhile but I will get over her soon. Especially knowing her for too many years. Practically grew up together. This is our 2nd major time we are no longer talking and it is final. I am just glad things are straight between me and my husband though.
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@paigea (22675)
• Canada
22 Jun 16
I am glad things are good between you and your husband. There are other people to have as friends who can be good to have in your life.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
22 Jun 16
Yeah, didn't help much because she is older than me and mostly immature.
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@Chungshop (2358)
22 Jun 16
That is back biting, stab you at the back. So now is time to filter your friends lo.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Right. I am. She hasn't done this to me really
@sharon6345 (147862)
• United States
22 Jun 16
After a scare like that I could not be her friend either. She is not trustworthy after all that. I hope she knows nothing about you that she could really spread around.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
She still continuing her crap but we all know the truth
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@zarlamain (24866)
• United States
24 Jun 16
It's better to cut her out of your life and just move on. Good for you!
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
Oh she is gone.
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@zarlamain (24866)
• United States
25 Jun 16
@carebear29 Good for you!
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
@zarlamain thank you
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@Tierkreisze (1358)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
Well... that's fortunate. She shouldn't have done those things. I hope your life gets better in the near future.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
I hope so too
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• Philippines
23 Jun 16
@carebear29 I'm sure she'll realize what she did too, someday. But until that day comes, I hope she doesn't hurt anyone else, though.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
@Tierkreisze Karma will get her. But not soon enough
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@Hatley (164450)
• Garden Grove, California
29 Jun 16
yes Im glad for you , what a false friend thats worse than an enemy because you do trust friends and that makes ikf really bad when they turn into bullies.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
29 Jun 16
Yes very true. Thanks
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@LoriAMoore (4731)
• United States
22 Jun 16
I took a break from a friend once and it didn't work the second time either, so we dropped each other off the friend list.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Thats what I did. Deleted her out.
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@solitary (261)
22 Jun 16
Cherish what we have or we will feel regret when we realized losing.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
God bless!
@epiffanie (10447)
• Australia
22 Jun 16
That's right .. just concentrate on your relationship with your husband ..
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
I am. Thanks
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@shivamani10 (11169)
• Hyderabad, India
22 Jun 16
You gave her too much leniency..which is not good at all.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
She no longer in my life
@3876745Ok (174)
• Guangzhou, China
22 Jun 16
Don't be friends with her, this is not a good friend.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
I agree. Shes gone
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
It's too bad to have a friend like that better keep away from her
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
I totally am.
@dpk262006 (56599)
• Delhi, India
22 Jun 16
I think these kinds of friends who speak lie and try to place you in an embarrassing situation are not required. You could forget her, she is not worth your friendship.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Right thanks
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@Shavkat (67234)
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
There are a lot of fake friends nowadays. It is really difficult to let go but it is easy to forget things done by these people. I do think she is jealous of what you have right now. I don't like people who fabricate stories.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Yes. Thats why I am careful who I talk to and what I say
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
She's not a friend worth keeping for. Better avoid her next time.
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22 Jun 16
What she did was absolutely immature of her but since you've grown up together & been friends for such a long time atleast try & figure out why she must have done that? Because I believe she considers you as important as you have considered her all these years and jealousy isn't just something that would make her try to ruin your relationship with your husband. What if there is something more than just jealousy that made her take such a huge step? Staying friends with her later or not is totally your call but I believe you should atleast talk it out with her first that why she did it before deciding to not to speak to her ever again! And yes even I agree that somethings just can't be fixed at times, so if it really isn't working out between you and her then you should probably stop talking to her but before ending a friendship that lasted for all these years I think you should have a closure with her!
• Philippines
22 Jun 16
@AlexGunner Well, after trying to fix things with her and she's still doing the same.. would you still keep her? She tried to ruin your relationship with your husband and I think she will do it again. Whatever the reason behind her insecurities, she will aim at you anytime if she had the chance. Well, Good luck. Hope everything goes well with you two...
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Thank you. I am doing just so. She isn't coming back to cry wolf again. I am completely done.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
22 Jun 16
You should say good-bye forever to someone like that. It sounds like all she wants to do is cause trouble.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Oh I did.
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• Otis Orchards, Washington
24 Jun 16
@carebear29 I would think that was a good decision.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
@RichardMeister Thank you
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• India
26 Jun 16
it hurts but we need to come across such things which is not good continuing
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
27 Jun 16
RIght. Its hard but it was needed
• India
27 Jun 16
@carebear29 yeah we have to be moving probably living unessentials
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@sugartoes (43846)
• Greencastle, Indiana
7 Jul 16
well when you have someone like that in your life it's best you just let them go about their business & go on with what you have going on & IF she does come for say running back just let her know your DONE with her crap & you don't need it in your life you have other things more important to do.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
8 Jul 16
It is hard but its ok. Shes done this before and no longer part of me for good
@MsTickle (24994)
• Australia
23 Jun 16
That could so have gone the wrong way. Sowing a seed of doubt like that could do irreparable damage between some couples. She must be incredibly insecure.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
25 Jun 16
She is in a way. She can be caring but way too protective
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• United States
23 Jun 16
sorry all that happened, but probably best not to have this person in your life, if they bring drama and try to cause trouble in your household.
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@carebear29 (28941)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
23 Jun 16
Right. I hate those kind of people