Lost a friend...good
June 21, 2016 10:43pm CST
I lost a friend today over her drama lieing bull today. She went and told my husband that I was dating one of our friends when I am clearly not. Mind you last night she wanted me to tell her boyfriend for her it was over and now she is like all protecting him and crap. My husband doesn't believe her since we all think she is jealous of me having it made. Another thing is is she is lesbian (no judge.) I am so irritated with her right now I just not going to take her back as a friend anymore if she comes running back again. My husband knows this is going to bother me for awhile but I will get over her soon. Especially knowing her for too many years. Practically grew up together. This is our 2nd major time we are no longer talking and it is final. I am just glad things are straight between me and my husband though.
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22 Jun 16
What she did was absolutely immature of her but since you've grown up together & been friends for such a long time atleast try & figure out why she must have done that? Because I believe she considers you as important as you have considered her all these years and jealousy isn't just something that would make her try to ruin your relationship with your husband. What if there is something more than just jealousy that made her take such a huge step? Staying friends with her later or not is totally your call but I believe you should atleast talk it out with her first that why she did it before deciding to not to speak to her ever again! And yes even I agree that somethings just can't be fixed at times, so if it really isn't working out between you and her then you should probably stop talking to her but before ending a friendship that lasted for all these years I think you should have a closure with her!
22 Jun 16
@AlexGunner Well, after trying to fix things with her and she's still doing the same.. would you still keep her? She tried to ruin your relationship with your husband and I think she will do it again. Whatever the reason behind her insecurities, she will aim at you anytime if she had the chance. Well, Good luck. Hope everything goes well with you two...
• Greencastle, Indiana
7 Jul 16
well when you have someone like that in your life it's best you just let them go about their business & go on with what you have going on & IF she does come for say running back just let her know your DONE with her crap & you don't need it in your life you have other things more important to do.