How Did You Push Yourself To Get Out From Your Comfort Zone?

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@Shavkat (63446)
Philippines
July 2, 2016 2:14am CST
When I was in high school, I was the kindest person in my batch. However, being so kind is not a good way especially for those classmates who are so abusive. There are times when I was bullied. Eventually, I had fought back and came out from my comfort zone to deal with these people. At the end, they became my close friends and act to be inspired by something. Whenever I see some people who had been bullied, I can understand what they are going through. I hope they will find their way to surpassing these trials. If they really can’t handle it, then it is about time to step up and find some support from the parents. Photo Credit: pixabay.com
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@epiffanie (10412)
• Australia
2 Jul 16
I was traumatised by the school bullies .. I was a very lonely student .. But I fought back by being an honor student ..
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
I also did the same thing. I am included in star section and never paid my high school tuition fees. These bullies are not in good condition right now. Bad karma strikes soon for these people.
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@epiffanie (10412)
• Australia
4 Jul 16
@Shavkat ..Good for you! .. the best way to deal with oppressors is to do our best
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@nomus24g (23661)
• India
2 Jul 16
I am not sure, if you can call it a 'comfort zone'...if you are humble n kind, that's your nature and not comfort zone...
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
My comfort zone is to stay as humble and kind. But then, I had an anxiety attack when being bullied.
@nomus24g (23661)
• India
2 Jul 16
@Shavkat still, am not sure if that can be called as comfort zone or not...anyway I got your point
@Lucky15 (33753)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
I fought back too. Then one classmate of mine told my.bully classmate about my family background and somehow.stop the bullying
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
That's nice. Someone had stood up for you.
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• United States
2 Jul 16
It is a horrible experience to be bullied my friend and I am sorry to hear this happened to you. Still, I can see you found a way to fight it, and become strong and wise. It is good if someone who is being bullied can stand up and find a way around those who would do harm to them. In my school, I was fortunate not to experience this, only once in the older grades, and I extinquished the bullier immediately lolz
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
I guess some people are so abusive. Perhaps these bullies lack attention. Bullying is the way to cover up their insecurities to others.
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• United States
2 Jul 16
@Shavkat Indeed Shavkat..they are merely grasping for attention and high fame which they never receive as no one likes a bully.
2 Jul 16
It takes immense strength to push oneself out of his/her 'comfort zone' and to tackle the situation at hand. What you did is commendable for there remain many people who absolutely dare not retaliate. They are the ones who need our help.
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
I agree. I had seen some people do the same scenario. To the rescue, I tried to help those being bullied.
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4 Jul 16
@Shavkat Me as well. I can't stand bullies. I myself have been a victim of bullying in my childhood but I gathered courage and fought back and now I help people fight back. Never give up.
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@skysnap (17805)
2 Jul 16
I just try. And see if that works.
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
Is someone bullying you?
@skysnap (17805)
2 Jul 16
@Shavkat happened in the past.
@JudyEv (126131)
• Bunbury, Australia
3 Jul 16
Bullying is a terrible thing to inflict on anyone. It's good that you fought back.
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
4 Jul 16
I have to, my friend. If not, they will totally destroy my life.
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@Macarrosel (7551)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
Sadly all my daughters were bullied In elementary. Good thing they are now old enough to be bullied.
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
It is a good thing that your daughters are grown up. It must be hard for them that time.
@responsiveme (16753)
• India
2 Jul 16
good you came out.the classmates mistook kindness for being soft,
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
Well, I was taught to be that way. But then, bullies took advantage of it. I need to fight back because they will still continue doing this if not stopped.
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• Philippines
2 Jul 16
My bullying history literally stop when I reach 3rd yrs highschool,but I was too traumatized then. Luckily, I got the respect I deserved and graduated from school.
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
@Letranknight2015 It is also stopped when I was at a second year level. Because of the insecurity drives them crazy of my existence.
@TRBRocks420 (79429)
• Banks, Oregon
2 Jul 16
I went through the same thing, but finally took a stand.
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@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
2 Jul 16
I guess we really need to face them with all the courage.
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@hoong143 (1410)
• Malaysia
6 Jul 16
I hate bullies.
@Shavkat (63446)
• Philippines
6 Jul 16
Did you experience it?
@SIMPLYD (80362)
• Philippines
4 Jul 16
Yes, we really have to fight or else we will be forever bullied . In grade one during my elementary days , i was skinny . Yet , i fought with my classmate who is big and was bullying me while i was playing with a classmate , kicking the rubber bands until it opens . Our parents were called , and that bully was reprimanded . He never bullied me again .
• Shillong, India
2 Jul 16
Coming out from comfort zone is challenging if you want to overcome. IN my opinion I would say that if really want something to achieve and is important to you that you should try to overcome so that you face the future problem in your life. Whether it is trying out new business, out of peoples track or etc. Its you who can push other cannot force you unless willingness comes within you
@sallypup (27505)
• Moses Lake, Washington
2 Jul 16
Far too often its the parents, too, not just the isolated bully kid.