Are you afraid of getting older and still single?

@zearah (5381)
Philippines
July 9, 2016 5:43am CST
Most of the people will urge you to marry anyone just to break the life as a single. No, they are not right. Marrying someone does not mean a successful life or a happier life. Marrying the one you love is the best reason for me to break the solitude. Being single means a lot of things to do with less limit while married individuals will have to stick to commitment and must have more sense of responsibilities. What will be your reason of marrying someone?
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7 responses
@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 16
Personally I plan to stay single. Even if I do ever have another girlfriend I doubt very much I'd ever get married.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
Whoaa! That is a brave decision. How many kids you have Sir?
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
@Mike197602 Then to stay alone unmarried maybe better if a person has at least one kid. That is just an opinion anyways.
@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
9 Jul 16
@zearah none
@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
When I was still studying in college, I told myself that I am going to marry at 25 because as what majority had said, that is the ideal age for marriage. However, as time goes by I have realized there are still many things that I want to attain before I settle down. Being single is not a scary thing. Being single gives your more opportunity to enjoy life.
@annierose (18926)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
@zearah I have a friend who told me to choose if I want to be married wishing I were single or I am single wishing I am married. He told me not to rush in marriage. Let things happen in God's time.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
23 Jul 19
@annierose Agreed. When it comes in the right time it really is a true blessing.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
Agreed. It is just living the life of having much more time to know more about yourself and other people. When one is married there is always a time constraint to everything.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
9 Jul 16
been there done this.now I am here loving it
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
23 Jul 19
I like this. I like to hear words from happy people.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
23 Jul 19
@amadeo You seems to be a good person that is why you are not alone.
@amadeo (111948)
• United States
23 Jul 19
@zearah thank you.What else can I say.lol
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Jul 16
I am old and single and never married and will remain so.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
Thank you for your confirmation Mr. John Roberts. May we know what would your reason be? Very interesting.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
@JohnRoberts Along the way maybe you will find the right person or if right person does not really exist then in right time maybe you will find the one to marry.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
9 Jul 16
@zearah Those of us who have always been single probably have a number of reasons as I have. The biggest reason for most would be just nit finding that right person, that right fit.
@minzee (26)
9 Jul 16
I would definitely marry the guy I love.....forcing people to marriage is not a good option either. sometimes may lead to fights
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
30 Apr 17
That so sweet of you. We hope that you will have your successful marriage with loving husband and beautiful kids.
@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
23 Jul 19
My mom always ask where is my girl, how can I live alone. She don't understand changes in current time.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
23 Jul 19
Maybe if she sees her grand daughter and grandson things will be different.
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@mrki444 (15150)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
23 Jul 19
@zearah She already have it 9.
@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
9 Jul 16
yes. marrying someone is not advisable as you said. Marrying someone whom you like and love will have some meaning.
@zearah (5381)
• Philippines
9 Jul 16
Agreed. Marriage nowadays may means security blanket for others but very few have succeeded because love does not exist. The word love brings a huge impact in any relationship especially in marriage life.