Moving Again???
By Susan
@HazySue (39264)
Gouverneur, New York
July 12, 2016 12:46pm CST
I don't know about you but I really don't like to move, at least not often. To me it is so much work and I really am not a person that like a lot of change. I like to settle in and nest.
We know a couple that has moved 5 times in the last year. I, for the life of me, can not understand this urge to move so often.
I sometimes think that they move this much because they can't afford the place they are renting and get behind. But, who am I to think this. I mean, it's their own business.
The only reason I think about it is because each time they move my husband gets a sob story from them about how they have no one to help them move.
So, he hooks up his trailer and goes over to help them move. It has happened so often this past year that he is totally fed up and is saying this is the last time he will help them.
What do you think? Would you keep helping them move time after time after time?
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@DianneN (246678)
• United States
12 Jul 16
Do they just use your hubby for moving or are you good friends? That would say a lot about them. We've been in our home since the kids were young and don't want to move. We did buy a winter home in Florida, but that wasn't moving. We just gutted and furnished it.
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@xstitcher (30282)
• Petaluma, California
12 Jul 16
Wow, that's a lot. We have lived in the same house the late '74 .
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
12 Jul 16
@xstitcher we have lived in this house for over 4 years. Before that we lived for 27 years in the other house.
@just4him (306048)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
12 Jul 16
If the only reason they came to him was to ask for help moving and didn't socialize in any other way, no, I wouldn't. It seems like that is what is happening and the couple is taking advantage of his generosity. There wouldn't need to be a need for sob stories as he would know the situation with the couple. Then he might even be more compassionate and helpful, however, if it is a sob story to play on his emotions and tender heart, then it's time to say no and let them find other help or do it themselves.
I know that might sound heartless, but from what you have there, it seems he's being taken advantage of and the time to say no is now. Let him come up with a reason why he can't help, legitimate of course.
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@Dena91 (15860)
• United States
12 Jul 16
It's a tough position to be in. They know your husband was able to help before so it's as if they sort of expect him to from now on. He needs to politely tell them no more. It's one thing to ask for help and receive it, but quite another to take advantage of someone. Have a blessed day
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