Two can play games!

@ricki_911 (19264)
Toronto, Ontario
July 15, 2016 12:25pm CST
I( have mentioned this guy I had dated in past discussions. Well I just kept ignoring him and figured he was immature and just being a real d*ck. Well he kept showing up everywhere (there is no reason for him to be), or showing up to my work and so on. Well his one friend kept happening upon the same places.I thought coincidence, well its literally everyday. He will then watch me, and then start texting someone (I assume him). Well why? If he's not interested why does anyone care what I'm doing. So this friend who would show up and watch me. I added to facebook and send him a message right after he added me then deleted me. He didn't deny it either and was rather rude.I simply said well then he follows me around,shows up at my work, talks to me to my cousins, and then his friends follow me. Sounds like the opposite as he states I can't get the hint (yet I am off dating other people). Yet, he is the one following me, showing up at my work, talking to my cousins and his friends following. Iam laughing right now. Least they know they are caught instead of me ignoring them hoping they'd go away.
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@GardenGerty (98059)
• United States
15 Jul 16
He can either go away or get brave enough to really speak.
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• India
15 Jul 16
@GardenGrety may be he is not that brave, so @ricki_911 can have a chat with him.
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• India
15 Jul 16
is he following you or you following him? seems to be confused here.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
He follows me. He shows up everywhere, when I am going to town, going to work, shows up in the building at work, and then his friends as well. I avoid places I know he goes.
• India
15 Jul 16
@ricki_911 may be he like you much. if you feels like that he follows you just have a chat with him. so that will get to a point right.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
@sunilparthan I have tried in the past but he wont talk and ridiculously nervous. If he sees me he then will stare at me then avoid it.
@VivaLaDani13 (18889)
• Perth, Australia
15 Jul 16
@ricki_911 Stalker alert! ok seriously, do NOT message him or anyone who knows him. What he is doing is down right creepy and any time you message him ( not saying you do ) but it will just persuade him to keep on going. I feel he may keep this up for awhile but ignoring him may make him get bored of it. I don't like people who watches others like a hawk. Whatever their reasons are, I find it wrong and invading ones personal space. Even if they are watching from a distance. It's just....creepy. Just stay safe! This makes me think of that movie Stalking Laura. Not saying it's going to get THAT bad but I'd still be cautious.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
I've been ignoring him for a year, and I can't message him as he blocked me.He has gotten his friends sisters to add me as well. I thought maybe he'd get the hint if I ignored him but then maybe if I point out I notice it. He wont he talk to me without shaking so I doubt he'd be able to do anything.
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• Perth, Australia
15 Jul 16
@ricki_911 ok well obviously you've done everything on your part! :/ I'm sorry you're dealing with this! I'd be freaked out to be honest with you! Would changing a few things help like a new Facebook account under a different name? I mean it shouldn't be you to change things but just an idea. I really wish for him and his imps to bugger off and leave you alone!
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
@VivaLaDani13 Exactly, I was trying not to let it bother me. But just seems weird, and why follow me around?. Doesn't make sense. I have had an ex stalk me and was nothing like this guy. This guy if I mention it he will avoid for awhile then show up.He wont come near me because he is so nervous. I have thought about changing everything so they can't find it but then why let them have that control.
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• United States
15 Jul 16
That's so strange, who has all the time to do that?
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
Exactly, I don't see why spending all this and the purpose. Why do his friends care?
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• United States
15 Jul 16
@ricki_911 Yeah and its been ongoing for some time too.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
@infatuatedbby It's been over a year now.
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@Marcyaz (35695)
• United States
15 Jul 16
It sounds like stalking to me and if you think he might be a nuisance you can report him to the authorities.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
Yes, if it keeps it up I will be. I couldn't see him doing anything either. He can't have a conversation with me without shaking.
@Marcyaz (35695)
• United States
15 Jul 16
@ricki_911 Sounds like a strange dude to me. I wouldn't trust him at all.
@Susan2015 (20415)
• United States
15 Jul 16
That does sound weird to me , like stalking.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
Yes, I can't see an issue or reason. I don't talk to them and mind my own business. His one friend walked into a truck watching me. The guy I was dating shows up randomly and wonder say anything just nervous. It's all in all weird. I tried ignoring them but maybe if I say something they will disappear.
@Corbin5 (102964)
• United States
15 Jul 16
Yes, it is always good when someone is caught doing something that is not appropriate.
@ricki_911 (19264)
• Toronto, Ontario
15 Jul 16
Yes, it is.
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