A Good Househelp is hard to find

@jbaraka (252)
Nairobi, Kenya
July 18, 2016 12:05am CST
Lately I have been having a hard time getting a good help. They just have a lot of drama. When they come first time they so humble but as time goes by they start disrespecting. Especially when they get boyfriends in the neighbourhood. My recent help knew only preparing one meal. She got frustrated (guessing) since she couldn't learn fast the meals prepared in Kenya(she is from Uganda) and she disappeared after picking my son from school. Though she looked cultured, so I thought. The first time she served me she went on her knees and with her head bent. I was surprised. Couldn't tell her off. This what she knows since childbirth. Even with all that she left n I have to prepare my 4yr old boy everyday as he goes to school. I have taken a 2weeks vacation a period of bonding with my 4yr old and 1 month old sons.
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@MGjhaud (23109)
• Philippines
18 Jul 16
Oh gosh, i feel you. I had 2 in a span of one month plus this new one i have now. I hope she'll last..
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Jul 16
Av been trying to get another one invain
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@MGjhaud (23109)
• Philippines
20 Jul 16
Haha all i can say is goodluck.
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Jul 16
@MGjhaud I surely need it
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@Jefrox (320)
• Taytay, Philippines
21 Jul 16
You know what? I feel your pain because it happened to me before.
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
21 Jul 16
@Jefrox this is so bad at least they should give a notice
@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
18 Jul 16
You said house help and I thought of a maid of sorts. Reading it sounds like a baby sitter? I was going to comment that I wish I could afford to pay someone to come clean my house.
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Jul 16
Yea a maid to help out as well as baby sit
@JudyEv (325345)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Jul 16
It is a shame your house-help didn't work out. Will you get someone else?
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Jul 16
I'm trying to get another one.
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@acelawrites (19273)
• Philippines
18 Jul 16
I pity her serving you on her knees with head bent, like a slave. But why did she just left without informing you about her plan.
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@jbaraka (252)
• Nairobi, Kenya
19 Jul 16
That was the bitter part. At least giving me a notice would have been good. I do pity their culture though seems more like oppressing women. What do u think?