Do you ever feel happy when someone follows you?

Perth, Australia
July 21, 2016 12:56am CST
On MyLot I mean. And I don't mean happy in an egotistical / proud sort of way. Like for me personally, I get happy when I get a notification saying that someone is following me on MyLot. Makes me think that someone likes my posts or likes talking to me. I have a low self esteem so that's what I mean but not in an egotistical way. I am not thinking "Oh yes of course, another follower! Go me!" I just get happy knowing that someone enjoys what I post or if they have enjoyed talking to me. Makes me feel a bit more confident about being here. I mean I am very comfortable here but some days I feel a little bit anti-social. Sort of like how I was in school when I was scared / too shy to join in with other kids to play. So how do you feel when you have a follower on MyLot?
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• United States
21 Jul 16
It's a nice feeling but I like it more when I see similar faces respond to my discussions and me vice versa :)
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@infatuatedbby Yeah I agree with that actually!
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• United States
29 Jul 16
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@jaboUK (54872)
• United Kingdom
21 Jul 16
To be honest I don't take a lot of notice unless they interact with me as well. I regularly have a clearout of my followers - there are so many who follow and you never see them again.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@jaboUK oh yeah I know exactly what you mean. I don't do it often for I am not following that many people yet but I had to delete some due to them not even being active.
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• Philippines
21 Jul 16
It's like finding a new friend. Like you, I'm happy that someone decided to follow me.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@rachz_kisses Yeah it can sure be awesome! That's for sure.
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• United States
22 Jul 16
bless yer heart 'n hugs! i don't get 'xcited 'bout such myself. havin' found that many'f those who follow me've ne'er e'en taken the time to read/respond to a single discussion i've dribbled here. but, i'm glad that such brings ya joy :)
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@crazyhorseladycx oh yeah I know what you mean. I've had people follow me but never have them interact with me at all lol So I don't understand actually. Thank you for answering!
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@zarlamain (24889)
• United States
21 Jul 16
It's nice! However, I haven't followed anyone on here yet. Instead, I tend to interact with people on here a lot whenever I come on here.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@zarlamain That's fair enough. You don't have to follow anyone on here anyway. As long as you're having a good time. That's the main thing.
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@zarlamain (24889)
• United States
29 Jul 16
@VivaLaDani13 That's right!
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@Daljinder (22072)
• India
25 Jul 16
A devastatingly wrong question to ask a stalker. It's the other way around.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@Daljinder lol oh yes of course! Silly me.
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@yani73 (805)
• Pakanbaru, Indonesia
21 Jul 16
Yea I'm so happy when someone follow me
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@yani73 That's good!
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• Philippines
21 Jul 16
Happy if i received notification that someone is following me here.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@eliza_godinez12 That's good! Glad you enjoy when that happens!
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@magallon (18124)
• Philippines
21 Jul 16
I love to have many followers here. And I love it too when I get notifications that someone is following me here in mylot.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@magallon Yeah it's a nice feeling!
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@youless (93173)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Jul 16
In fact I don't really pay attention who is following me. But I will feel happy if more Mylotters reply to my discussions. It doesn't mean a lot for me to have many followers but they don't respond to my discussions.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@youless Yeah I know what you mean. Having followers is nice but having people actually interact with you is even better! :)
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@JudyEv (130589)
• Bunbury, Australia
21 Jul 16
I always think it is nice too. I usually go and read some of their work, like and respond as a courtesy for their having followed me.
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jul 16
@JudyEv That's really nice of you!
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@TRBRocks420 (81196)
• Banks, Oregon
21 Jul 16
Yeah, I like when people follow me, always a good feeling.
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• Perth, Australia
21 Jul 16
@TRBRocks420 Glad someone else feels the same. :) You're such an appreciative person too.
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