When you need an advice where do you go?
By 123playa123
@supervalon (1208)
North Las Vegas, Nevada
July 24, 2016 6:16pm CST
Do you have a special person when you need to lay on his arm and just seek advice? Who is that, your mother/father your boyfriend/girlfriend or maybe your friends?
I often expose myself to my friends. But most of the things when i'm sad i keep to myself i think me myself would best understand it.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
25 Jul 16
@supervalon Sometimes that is the best way to go.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
@velvet53 Yes sometimes i really feel like people should be inside me for a second, in that case we'd understand each other more easily.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
Nice, most of you that replied seek an advice by themselves haha. 
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
Nice to you people that confess everything to your partners hehe 
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
@dyno10 Of course not because girls are temporary, i'm in my stage of life where i can change many girls... when i find the real one i'll confess to her everything
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
25 Jul 16
@supervalon,My mother,father,and yes,one of my friends,my best childhood friend,who never disappoints me.He's always ready to help me when I'm in need.
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@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
25 Jul 16
@supervalon,Thanks. You may include even my sisters who's now with her husband in another city.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
So nice to have many people that are here for you.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
Who needs a girlfriend, but the problems is yeah you really need friends bro. Maybe one day you'll find the real friends and the real girlfriend that you meant to be with and live forever.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
24 Jul 16
Yes i also often expose myself to my online friends forgot to said that. Because sometimes an online friend will understand you more than a real life friend. Meditating? Wow that's nice if it works up for you!
Meditating? Wow that's nice if it works up for you!1 person likes this
@Riku1998 (211)
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24 Jul 16
@supervalon Yeah I know that.Well it works for me because im calm person so it is not hard for me to do it
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
@Riku1998 You sound so interesting,calm person meditating haha
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@Stitch95 (178)
• United Kingdom
25 Jul 16
I rarely ask anyone for advice, it's not something that comes naturally to me. On the few occasions I do it's the friend I've known for over a decade now. She doesn't actually help, but she makes me feel better about whatever problem I went to her with :')
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
Well depends, who doesn't like getting cheered up, but i prefer actually getting an advice that will help me out, instead of good cheering words
@Stitch95 (178)
• United Kingdom
25 Jul 16
@supervalon Advice is helpful, certainly, but my friend and I currently have very different situations. When she does offer advice it's often ill-informed simply because she's seeing it from HER situation rather than mine. It's not bad advice, just not hugely helpful to me. It does give me an excuse to catch up with her and have a good talk to clear my mind and help me look at the situation clearly :)
@succeednow (1633)
• Singapore
31 Jul 16
@supervalon I think a good place to seek advice would be at myLot as there are many experienced, knowledgeable and kind folks who are willing to help. However, you probably need to explain your problem well in order to get useful advice.
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
25 Jul 16
I go to three persons...me, myself, and I! 
Sounds narcissistic doesn't it? Mostly people can't solve what I have so I don't tell them my problems to seeks advice. It's mostly me who finds the solution anyway. I just talk to friends to pour out emotions, just to share, but they know i'm not asking for an advice.
When it comes to company problems, of course I would call a board meeting for that and the rest of the board members (including me) would be brainstorming of what's the best thing to do.
Sounds narcissistic doesn't it? Mostly people can't solve what I have so I don't tell them my problems to seeks advice. It's mostly me who finds the solution anyway. I just talk to friends to pour out emotions, just to share, but they know i'm not asking for an advice.
When it comes to company problems, of course I would call a board meeting for that and the rest of the board members (including me) would be brainstorming of what's the best thing to do.1 person likes this
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
25 Jul 16
@supervalon lol the same. I talk to friends but i don't ask advice especially for personal life problems. It's just something that I believe I should be doing myself since it involves me and not other people.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
So you have full control over yourself, you never confess to others haha? Nice personality.
Yeah, but i meant for personal life problems what'd you do..
Nice personality.
Yeah, but i meant for personal life problems what'd you do.. 1 person likes this
@cherriefic (10400)
• Philippines
25 Jul 16
I go here. At least they cannot judge me cause they dont know me personally.
@eliza_godinez12 (5567)
• Philippines
25 Jul 16
I usually ask advice from my parents.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
Yes, because we young ones are still in the stage that need help from mommy and daddy
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
Well yes you are grown enough to be capable of making a decision by yourself Mrs Jabo.
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@rina110383 (24495)
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25 Jul 16
I don't seek advice from others. I solve my problems on my own. Others have their own problems to settle. I don't want my problems to give additional stress to my family. Besides, I won't listen to others anyway. Better if I keep my own problems and think of solutions at the soonest.
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
So you actually think for others too, that's very sweet. Don't want your problems to overtake other people and stress them out. Aw you really deserve to be heard out sweetie
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@supervalon (1208)
• North Las Vegas, Nevada
25 Jul 16
I didn't mean that, but nevermind. It's good taking a fresh air, it reduces your stress and your problems.
@tnmathewsbsuedu (51)
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25 Jul 16
I typically seek advice from my mother, friends, & boyfriend. I used to get advice from Xanga advice columns and sometimes that would be an unbiased opinion that was of value. I haven't been on there in awhile but I'm sure you can find people offering advice online if you'd like a different perspective than you are used to getting.
