Whats Wrong with being Single????

July 26, 2016 12:48pm CST
When a woman turned 30 unmarried or not in-a-relationship most of the time people keep asking questions like "Why are you Single?" and that question when being asked multiple times in a day up to the following days it gets annoying, its like those people who are in a relationship or married are saying there's something wrong with you. Is having someone a strong requirement to remain alive?
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@zarlamain (24885)
• United States
26 Jul 16
They are being ignorant. Nothing wrong with being 30, unmarried, and single. I am 36, unmarried, and never had kids. People tell me to get married, but they should mind their own business. Just ignore them and be yourself! Be happy!
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@irishidid (8731)
• United States
26 Jul 16
If I had it to do over again I would have had the kids without the marriage.
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@zarlamain (24885)
• United States
26 Jul 16
@irishidid Exactly! No wonder so many celebrities have started the trend of having kids before getting married. They are opting out of the whole marriage thing and just going straight for the kids.
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@Drosophila (16699)
• Ireland
27 Jul 16
@zarlamain good on ya.. I get the kids question a lot myself.. which really has nothing to do with anyone else
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@skysnap (18037)
26 Jul 16
Tell me about it. I am guy in 30s and single. I get all sort of questions thrown at me. Some even doubt my sexuality. Some make weird faces. And lot hell. I wonder why people can;t be single if they came into this world single and die single?
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@Deepizzaguy (14983)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
26 Jul 16
I like being single since I fear not being faithful to my better half if I was married since I cannot prevent birds from flying over my head but I will have a hard time preventing them from landing nest on my head.
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• Hyderabad, India
26 Jul 16
this is most happen thing around the world to all woman , for point of marriage it take time when she fell comfortable with person then woman thing about marriage with person or else she wait till she get correct person
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@Mike197602 (13911)
• United Kingdom
26 Jul 16
I love being single Nobody asks me any questions about it...they remember my last gf...still traumatised
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@meowch (1055)
• United States
29 Jul 16
I been asked by the relatives of when I'll get married. It gets really annoying and redundant. Nothing is wrong being single as long as you are happy, set your own rules, pretty much it's a given choice to be single and its a great feeling ever to be free to do what you like.
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31 Jul 16
It really does gets annoying when people kept asking that same question over and over. I don't even like seeing some of my friends who's doing the same coz i get tired of answering.
@Raj7779 (2922)
• Ahmednagar, India
1 Aug 16
Just ignore them and enjoy your life,don't think about others.do that what you want
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@Drosophila (16699)
• Ireland
27 Jul 16
I would say "because I am happy.". Or I would simply smile and look at them without answering the question and let the person feel awkward and ignored
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@youless (93541)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Jul 16
It is nothing wrong to be single. Actually not everybody is so lucky to find another part. True love doesn't come easy. Others seem to care about you but actually it is a kind of gossip.
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@wiLLmaH (8236)
• Singapore, Singapore
27 Jul 16
Being single is fun.
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• India
27 Jul 16
People enjoy poking their nose in everybody's life. Just ignore them and be yourself.
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• China
27 Jul 16
After been engaged for 3 years, I start to miss single days, those days with freedom, and you can sleep as you can, you can go out with buddies for basketball playing, and you can leave your clothes away and wash them when you want. And I think the worst thing for single is that you are going to be not single anymore, but if you decide to single forever, dont give a sh** to those keeping asking you the annoying questions.
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@rina110383 (24070)
27 Jul 16
I'm in my early 30s. No one attempted to ask me that question probably because of my intimidating, mean and expressionless look.
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@Tierkreisze (1358)
• Philippines
26 Jul 16
That's because they think that you are going to have a hard time to get a husband or even have kids since you're already 30 and that people normally have a family at that age. However, remaining single at 30 is alright as long as you want to be single.
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@irishidid (8731)
• United States
26 Jul 16
I got married in my 30s. I didn't like it. Been happily single for 20 years.
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@1hopefulman (32461)
• Canada
26 Jul 16
There is nothing wrong with being single. There are many happy, single people in the world.
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@AutumnSnow (4583)
26 Jul 16
Nothing wrong with it all. I say take your time my daughter tell me all the time she don't need or want a man cause she has plans and she dont have time for one,lol course she's 16 but I love her mindset.
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