Is it wrong?
By rachz_kisses
@rachz_kisses (3798)
Philippines
August 1, 2016 7:32am CST
While sweeping the dust off the porch, I overheard our neighbour talking to someone on the phone. Well, he's literally shouting so I can hear him from across the street.
"Why don't you trust me?" he said. "It's all in the past now. She's not you. You're not her. She belongs to my past and you are my present now."
Oh. I sensed a love quarrel. I couldn't help but smirk.
When in a relationship, do you still communicate with your ex? Up to what level do you allow your friendship to stay?...
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13 responses
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
@sunrisefan OH he is the real and last love of LT . Just as my husband is also my real and last love . 
Funny , i suddenly have a mental block as to who RF is . But in a while i knew who was it , as i am Ms. LT
Funny , i suddenly have a mental block as to who RF is . But in a while i knew who was it , as i am Ms. LT 2 people like this
@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
2 Aug 16
I have the same response as @crazyhorseladycx - I think it would be hard to go back to being just friends.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
2 Aug 16
It depends on how the relationship ends... I think. You're right, it's hard to go back to being just friends.
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@Letranknight2015 (51498)
• Philippines
19 Sep 16
Well, too bad for this person because she seemed jealous and uneasy when his man to talk or even reestablish friendship with his ex or something.
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@Letranknight2015 (51498)
• Philippines
24 Oct 16
@rachz_kisses Trust issues can be a problem.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
19 Sep 16
@Letranknight2015, Probably having some trust issue.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
4 Aug 16
@rachz_kisses yep.. But of course have limitations on it.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
Really?... so you two remain just friends. How wonderful.
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@just4him (305532)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
9 Aug 16
@rachz_kisses We were divorced many years ago. We had some good times, but I was happily divorced.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
10 Aug 16
@just4him Good to hear that you're happy. That's all that matters.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
6 Aug 16
Oh. Sorry to hear that. I know you had good times with him though there's no reason to looking back on it.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
5 Aug 16
Some remain friends probably because they are totally over with it. Some don't maybe because of how it ended. I guess.... 
@marie42 (981)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
5 Aug 16
@rachz_kisses very true depends on the circumstances.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
4 Aug 16
I think having communication with an Ex does a lot damage to the present relationship. So better not linger on the past. 
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@sabtraversa (12854)
• Italy
9 Aug 16
If it began as a friendship (a real one), then turned into a love affair and at last it was broken up, it can be possible, depending on the situation. I never had a serious relationship before the one I'm currently in, and I would definitely hold a friendship with a few people, if my jealous boyfriend allowed me. But he doesn't. 
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
10 Aug 16
I agree. Some are still friends with their ex'es. It really do depend on how the relationship ended and how serious it was. You're boyfriend doesn't see the need for you to be friends with the past though. He is everything you have right now.
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@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
1 Aug 16
noperz, when i'm done, i'm done.
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How did you know? 
@rina110383 (24495)
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2 Aug 16
No. Once the relationship ends, communication ends as well.
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
2 Aug 16
It should be. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
Yes. As to the level of friendship, I don't know because friendship is a friendship and not a love.
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