Anger and resistance.

@shubhu3 (15459)
New Delhi, India
August 2, 2016 7:04am CST
Anger is something which when bursts, it is extremely harmful.The words spoken during this state of mind, are bitter and not true.We must control our anger in order to become more calmer and peaceful in life.The more we try to resist anger with positive emotions and love, the calmer we will be and the better human beings we will become.
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@TheHorse (70756)
• Pleasant Hill, California
6 Aug 16
I agree. Anger often comes from frustration. I'd rather problem-solve than be frustrated or angry. And I don't want to "buy in" to others' anger.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
7 Aug 16
Yeah exactly.You are right. :) Solving problem is more productive than being frustrated and projecting the anger towards others. :)
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@Creatist (16)
• New Delhi, India
5 Aug 16
I completely agree with you on this.We should control our anger and instead invest in doing something else or by distracting ourselves.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
5 Aug 16
Yeah absolutely.
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@silvermist (20096)
• India
2 Aug 16
@shubhu3 Okay so that is why they say-temper is valuable don't lose it.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 16
Yeah exactly. :)
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@shshiju (10574)
• Cochin, India
2 Aug 16
Buddha says that If every one surrounded are angry with us we should think that we are the Odd one to correct them and love the fellow beings.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 16
Yeah acceptance is the key if the people don't alter their state of anger. :)
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@skysnap (17946)
2 Aug 16
I think keeping ourselves calm all the time doesn't help with real life protection either.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 16
Yeah see it all depends upon you.This is my perspective of trying to view something from a different angle which I have started following and which is helping me a lot.
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• United States
24 Feb 17
You can be calm and still protect yourself.
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@skysnap (17946)
24 Feb 17
@Funkrocker I wonder how that works. I am bad at that.
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@JolietJake (51116)
• United States
2 Aug 16
I must disagree. Words spoken in anger are actually often very true...it took the anger to finally allow them to come forth.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 16
I would like to differ here since many a times words spoken in anger are not true.It is just the frustration that comes out and that is not the reality.
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@JolietJake (51116)
• United States
3 Aug 16
@shubhu3 I beg to differ, because for me, anger will cause me to make extremely truthful statements, regardless of if the other person gets their toes stepped on or not.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
4 Aug 16
@JolietJake Alright. :)
• United States
21 Feb 17
Very good. I'd like to be calm at all times.
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@shubhu3 (15459)
• New Delhi, India
22 Feb 17
That is nice.
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