Why people do what they do!

@marie42 (982)
Shreveport, Louisiana
August 4, 2016 12:34pm CST
I never understood why people will be so nice in your face and then talk crap behind your back. I mean seriously, if you have something to say about me, I would rather you tell me in my face. I have heard so many ridiculous thing about me lately and all of it isn't true. I don't care, because I know who I am and what I have done. But, it stings when it comes from someone you thought was a friend or even liked you. I guess some people will do whatever it takes to get there way no matter who it hurts. I hate people like that. I would never do that to anyone, even if I didn't like you. I wasn't raised to be that way. You wonder why my husband and I stay to ourselves :) Can anybody else relate?
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@melissa1024 (2348)
• Beckley, West Virginia
4 Aug 16
I know exactly what your talking about. Bad part is you confront these people and they will say they did not say it others are just trying to start trouble. I am sorry but if I have something to say I am going to say it to you not behind your back to others. I do not understand why the people who feels they have something to say can not say it to the person they have the problem with instead of others and then when confronted deny it!
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
I wish I knew. I am the same way. I will tell it to your face.
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• Beckley, West Virginia
4 Aug 16
@marie42 Exactly. Why hide it or lie about it!
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
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• Preston, England
4 Aug 16
it happens to me a lot too, mostly from my family
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
Well I am recently getting that as well which something I never expected.
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• Preston, England
5 Aug 16
@marie42 very sad that people chooe to gossip so casually - I don't think they realize word gets back to who they are talking about
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
5 Aug 16
@arthurchappell I believe you are right.. or they don't care if it does.
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• Guernsey
4 Aug 16
Thats humanity my dear. I very much relate! I also keep everything to myself with my wife :)
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
Seems you can't trust anyone anymore.. or atleast at times it feels like that.
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• Guernsey
4 Aug 16
@marie42 Yup trust no one
@shivamani10 (11131)
• Hyderabad, India
4 Aug 16
I had many such experiences. They are born to behave like that. Even if you say them not to do like that it does not affect them even a pinch.
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
So true. Why I have nothing to do with people like that.
@skysnap (17822)
4 Aug 16
Circumstances I guess. That's what make people do things they are doing.
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
I guess.. but just amazes me how some people are.
@AutumnSnow (4585)
4 Aug 16
Boy can I ever relate to that. That exactly why my husband and I are the same way. I've been hurt so badly by others acting like that and for no reason I dont understand because I do care a lot about people but I guess I dont get the same in return I dont get it what's so wrong with me that people feel the need to treat me like I've never been nothing but nice to them.
@marie42 (982)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
4 Aug 16
actually! my husband and I are always that way and we always seemed to get crapped on. Because of it, its very few people we trust anymore.
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