how to mitigate the sad and lonely feel when you were a trainee in a company?

Guangzhou, China
August 23, 2016 10:09pm CST
I am a senior student .now i am a trainee in shenzhen store display Ltd.the city for me is strange ,strange environment, strange colleague.the colleague did not like my classmates who are easy-going,friendly,passion.sometimes i feel lonely because i did not know who i can believe to talk with the sad things in my mind.what 's worse ,it's difficult for me to adapt the food in this city.i think i got sick because smallpox pustule fill in my face that increase the sad feelings.
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@shivamani10 (11233)
• Hyderabad, India
24 Aug 16
Do not think about all these things. First, learn to be friendly with everybody. Gradually you develop a change in your character and tastes. It is not a big problem. First, forget that you are having a new company.
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• Guangzhou, China
24 Aug 16
everyone has his own characteristic.i think i am friendly to all of them,but sometime somebody's characteristic is bad,i also friendly to him and smile but i did't happy.it's not myself.
@shivamani10 (11233)
• Hyderabad, India
24 Aug 16
@storedisplaystand better just avoid such people. Stick to your personality and try to understand as to how many are in your way. If there are many then continue them. If there are many that are not in your way then you have to make a little bit of compromise with your movements. That is the only solution.
• Guangzhou, China
25 Aug 16
@shivamani10 we must be ourself.right?
• Mumbai, India
24 Aug 16
oh so sorry to hear that dear
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• Guangzhou, China
24 Aug 16
i think i will be strong,even sometimes i will miss home and college.so i just need somewhere to say something ,and then i join in the mylot.
@MALUSE (40098)
• Germany
24 Aug 16
What are you interested in outside work? Find a hobby that brings you into contact with like-minded people. Team sports would be good or singing in a chorus.
• Guangzhou, China
24 Aug 16
actually,i have many hobbies.but because i am a trainee i have a lot of things need to learn.i had no time to do some my favorite things.you know chinese always work.from my view,left school to society to do a job is a not happy thing.
@MALUSE (40098)
• Germany
24 Aug 16
@storedisplaystand Just choose one hobby. You'll feel better.
• Guangzhou, China
25 Aug 16
@MALUSE thank you .i will try
• India
24 Aug 16
Be friendly to everyone and try to adapt in the situations. It will make you feel comfortable.
• Guangzhou, China
25 Aug 16
i think i am friendly ,but i didn't ensure others friendly to me