I wonder if I made excuses like that before..
August 24, 2016 11:05am CST
My friend has a small budget and I get that for sure. She is not able to live on much and I am telling her that if she would turn off her boost phone and keep her free phone. I will help her buy a computer to do some sites I heard one excuse after another and you know what. I said stop don't worry about it. If you don't want my help it's ok. I am willing to hel you if your willing to work online for some hours. She told me she was tired and needed a nap. I said have a great day ok. Click.
12 people like this
• Boise, Idaho
25 Aug 16
Some people really change their tune when they have to actually do something and work for something. As long as nice and good hearted people like you help these people they will never learn to do it for themselves. I am glad you have some what changed your tune and aren't doing that any more. People shouldn't be able to get things so easy and have others do for them so much. THey will never learn to do for themselves that way.
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Aug 16
A lot of people are like this, they don't want to help themselves. One being a friends daughter sitting at home on welfare with one child pregnent with another, expecting everything handed to her. She whines she has no money yetwhen I gave her a few links she had excuses.
• United States
24 Aug 16
Sometimes people are in the situation they because there's a comfort level to it, regardless of how uncomfortable it may be. Sometimes people are frightened of making a change. You gave her information. You know about leading a horse to water. You can still help her in round about ways (think of Tom Sawyer whitewashing that fence). But that's evil.
• Paradise, California
24 Aug 16
My daughter has a friend like that. Maybe former friend. Not willing to do anything after asking for help. . .I bought her a computer and she just didn't want to do even the simplest things. I had asked her about it first, not just tried to tell her she had to do anything. At the time she said it sounded great, and then once she had the computer, she didn't want to use it for that.