Sick of seeing abusive posts about size!!!!!

Aberystwyth, Wales
August 31, 2016 8:21am CST
All I see is meme pictures slating every size of human out there!! Your either to fat or to thin, no inbetween, the worst thing is, bigger girls slate thin girls, and vice versa , why can't all women stick together and men even, it's just generally a bigger issue for women, there's no, " good for you" or "you look great" these days, size doesn't make you different, a better person? It's up-to you how you choose to look, size is also sometimes due to health reasons, I don't think people realise how much damage these posts do, making people think there a certain way to look and be accepted, how self conscious it can make people, leading then to a life of shame, paranoia and self loath, maybe it's the generation we live in, or the way we're perceived to look, my answer is, sod anyone but yourself, you don't live for someone else, so, be yourself no matter what size, and more importantly, love every minute of it!!!! ??????
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@Mike197602 (13310)
• Worcester, England
31 Aug 16
Great to see another UK member...there aren't that many of us I don't make comments about peoples size purely because it's none of my business I could do with dropping the odd pound or two but that's my issue, nobody elses Quite often I go on the Mail Online comments section and some people are horrendous for the things they say about celebs and their looks and weight etc. More often than not it's from bitter twisted people with no life of their own
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• Aberystwyth, Wales
31 Aug 16
Yep got it in one, think it's people own self conscious issues that make them so bitter about everyone else's, exactly my point, u say u need to drop a few, where as me, I could probably do with puting some on haha so us being completely different and yet can still appreciate people as they are, don't understand why everyone else can be Luke that, ?? maybe one day eh
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@Mike197602 (13310)
• Worcester, England
31 Aug 16
@Sallysweetxx maybe one day...but there are a lot of nasty people about I think the media and celebrity culture sort of fuels it as people see others with no discernible talent making loads of money whereas they're struggling working hard. So to even things up they body shame the person It's all to do with jealousy and their actual lack of self worth...but the magazines/papers don't help things.
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