Empty Pockets

@inertia4 (27961)
United States
August 31, 2016 7:51pm CST
This post for for someone who is one true friend of mine online. One true strong woman who has wisdom beyond her imagination. She is someone who has been there and done that and knows what she is talking about. And this is one woman who can give good solid advice on what not to do and what to avoid in life. I am talking about the one and only  @sugartoes she is the most amazing person I have met in a long time online. Hands down, without a doubt. I am doing this post for her in a challenge she put forth. I am taking that challenge for her. On her behalf and for mine as well. Not many people in this world have been through what she has in her struggling life.  She has made many posts about her life growing up. I read every single one of those posts. And believe me they were heartbreaking. Something no one should ever have to go through. She went into detail about different situations in her life. One more horrible than the next one. And yet she prevailed. She survived them all and came out of it as well. after reading her posts, I would have assumed she would have been one bitter person. But guess what, she is not bitter at all, not one bit. As a matter of fact, she is the complete opposite of bitter. She is loving and caring and honest.  Her life stories and her wisdom will help others in times of need or in situations similar to hers. I know that if I was to have grown up like her I wouldn’t be  nice person at all. I would be bitter and angry and sad and lonely. But @sugartoes is none of those things. She is a true human being. Like an iron tank having things thrown at it, she kept on rolling through her hard life and her troubles. Between any physical abuse and mental abuse, she is tough as nails and as sweet as pie. That is very hard to accomplish in a world such as hers. She accomplished it and I applaud that.  I can honestly say this, I am not a religious person, not in the least. But she is very religious and believes in god. Now I ask you, for someone to have gone through what she has, would you believe in god or a god? I highly doubt that. I know I wouldn’t. I had things happen to me through my life. But nothing like she has. My misfortunes pale in comparison to hers. And I am not religious. I was raised catholic and after attending catholic school, I decided that religion was not for me. The point I am bringing out here is her strong belief. He never giving up on it and sticking with it through good and bad times. She is a trooper.  I know this post sounds like I am building her up and trying to make her sound better than she is. But in the contrary, I know what I am talking about here. I am not building her up to be larger than life. She already is larger than life. And no one in this world has the right to judge her for the things she had to do do survive. She did what she had to. No matter what it was. Otherwise she wouldn’t be here with us now. And believe me, she has had many heartaches in her life. From her personal struggles as a child to her children as well. So I ask everyone here to please give her her due and applaud this woman for her courage, love, honesty and understanding.  Copyright © 2016 Steven Cetta All Rights Reserved Image Credit : CoolText.com inertia4, Empty, Pockets, @sugartoes, inertia4posts
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@jstory07 (134291)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Sep 16
She has been through a lot and sounds like a very brave women.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
She is a brave woman. I don't know if I would have been that brave with a life like that.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes No, you are brave. Who in this world could survive that like you did. It took guts to get through it all.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes That is what I mean. You know hat you've been through. So what I wrote describes what I feel and think you have been through and the kind of person you are.
• West Haven, Connecticut
1 Sep 16
Very inspiring post!
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
Thank you. I feel she deserved it.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes Look, I do not believe it was too much. I feel it was on the money for you. Enjoy it.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes , very nice words for you and they are the best words to best describe you my friend.
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@clrumfelt (5490)
• United States
1 Sep 16
What a lovely tribute to your friend. Kudos to @sugartoes for overcoming adversity to become the strong, capable woman that she is.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
Thank you. She deserves a post like this. Truly and honestly she does. See, you wrote her username in your response and it highlighted. It did not highlight in my post. I wonder why.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
1 Sep 16
@inertia4 Names don't highlight in posts but the person still gets notification. The reason for not highlighting might have something to do with the guideline about not naming people but in this case it would be totally silly not to allow such a nice post. What you wrote about @sugartoes is indeed inspirational.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@Bluedoll Oh, okay. Good. I thought there was something wrong with it. Thank you. I thought it captured who I think she is.
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@moffittjc (118365)
• Gainesville, Florida
1 Sep 16
I've read every one of her posts and have followed everything that has happened in her life. She has risen to the challenge and has overcome everything life has thrown at her. Proud to call her a friend!
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
She has rien to the challenge of life and survived. Her stories were sad and riveting.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes You should be honored. You presented this challenge to me and I took it. I was glad to do it and inspired to do it.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes You are all that. I am glad I was able to put a smile on your face and make you feel special. because you are special.
@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
1 Sep 16
That is what I sense to my dear friend @sugartoes as being a very nice woman and religious like me.I feel the words she had written in the past up to the present. She is a woman and a fighter of life.I would like to salute this lady and raise my hand to show my respect and loud applaud.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
She is a fighter and one awesome person. There are no real words to describe how she really is. But I did my best.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes You are an inspiration to many here. Do not under estimate yourself. Ever.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
@sugartoes Good. That makes me happy to hear. I was honored to write this.
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@just4him (305533)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
6 Sep 16
I totally agree with all you said about @sugartoes. One great lady!
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
8 Sep 16
Yes she is. Always great, especially after what she has been through.
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@just4him (305533)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Sep 16
@sugartoes I know you do.
@just4him (305533)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Sep 16
@sugartoes You're doing a great job.
@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
20 Jul 17
I am very fond of her and am becoming close friends with her.
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@velvet53 (22528)
• Palisade, Colorado
22 Jul 17
@inertia4 Yep! Yep! Yep! How have you been?
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
22 Jul 17
@velvet53 Hey Now!!! I have been okay. I had a procedure done, one last year and one this year on my bladder. I am fine now though. Working on getting my sugar down and to lose weight again. How have you been? I hope everything has been good.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
22 Jul 17
Awesome. She is a wonderful human being. Without a doubt.
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@koopharper (7463)
• Canada
1 Sep 16
A fitting tribute. Been following her here for quite some time myself.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
1 Sep 16
Thank you. I believe she deserves this. She is one amazing person for sure.
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• United States
29 Sep 16
I don't know @sugartoes but it sounds like she does not have a religion, but a relationship with G-d. So her past hurts that were healed, has caused her to be close to Him and so she is not bitter, but thankful.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
29 Sep 16
She did have a hard life. I don't know her personally. I know her form here. But we are pretty good online friends. She is one tough woman I will tell you that.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
30 Sep 16
@sugartoes You're welcome my friend. Any time.
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• United States
30 Sep 16
@sugartoes Amein! That is what I meant, He is there for us and He does answer our prayers. It may not be what we want, but His ways are higher and we have to trust Him. I am now following you and looking forward to getting to know you more.
@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
17 Sep 16
I have chatted with her here a few times and while I don't know the story of her life, I do applaud her surviving. I truly understand being pushed down in life and still loving and following God, no matter what. For some of us, that is exactly how we do survive. She is so blessed to have a friend like you here. You're one in a million.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
18 Sep 16
Thanks for your wonderful comment. She is truly an amazing person and a strong woman. I know many people have their own story, as do we all. I just felt that she needed this post. She does need to know how special she is to others.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
20 Sep 16
@CRK109 I hope so. And thank you again. I know I am not the easiest person in the world but I have my moments.
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
19 Sep 16
@inertia4 Everyone's life should be blessed by just one friend like you. Her life is blessed in so many wonderful ways and I'm sure she knows that now like never before!
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
3 Sep 16
That is an extremely beautiful and touching post.I seriously feel proud of you @sugartoes.You are an extremely strong woman and a person to be an inspiration.Hats off to this post and to you @sugartoes and to @inertia4 also for writing this beautiful post.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
4 Sep 16
I thank you for your response. And I am sure @sugartoes does as well.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
4 Sep 16
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
4 Sep 16
@sugartoes That is extremely beautiful.
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@Daljinder (23228)
• Bangalore, India
7 Sep 16
Wow! That was a good read and written with care and consideration. Yes she is a cool woman. Admirable in her own right
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
8 Sep 16
Thanks. I tried my best. I felt this explained the kind of person she is. Glad you enjoyed this post. And I am sure she will love your comment.
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@gofsey (1912)
• Madurai, India
12 Sep 16
You are right! Come hail or thunderstorm, @sugartoes is one hell of a dependable anchor in the stormy sea. I guess it is the attitude and the will to pull it off. It is great knowing you here at myLot emptyPockets.
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@gofsey (1912)
• Madurai, India
13 Sep 16
@sugartoes We all need good people; it makes the community strong.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
13 Sep 16
She is one awesome lady. A real true friend and like you said, an anchor.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
13 Sep 16
@sugartoes I told you everyone cares about you here that is friends with you. You are a staple to everyone here.
@marie42 (981)
• Shreveport, Louisiana
5 Sep 16
she is definitely a brave and great person. I am blessed to have met her.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
8 Sep 16
I am also. I am glad she is my friend here on MyLot.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
9 Sep 16
@sugartoes I am very happy to hear that. We need more people like you around.
@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
9 Sep 16
@sugartoes LOL. Well, you are an original. I get that. Nothing wrong with that.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
12 Sep 16
You described about her very nicely. She is one of the best mylotters here, as far as I know.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
14 Sep 16
@inertia4 I agree with you.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
16 Sep 16
@dpk262006 Thank you.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
13 Sep 16
Thank you. I tried to make this post good and real. And I guess I succeeded. She is a great person.
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@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
16 Oct 16
First of all, I want to say that it's nice to see you here. I've missed your posts other places...all of which I believe are no longer. I really enjoy reading her posts, most especially the ones about the crafts she is working on and how the cabin is coming along.
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@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
16 Nov 16
This is a beautiful accolade to your friend I am so glad she found a faith in God to helo her. He aleays uses what we have been through to help others. There ys a saying in Christian circles that the battle is in propirtion to the blessing and so I believe that she is destined to be blessed.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
16 Nov 16
Thank you very much for your comment. I personally and not religious. But I think she is a strong person. I also believe she did not have any help from an unseen entity. She was the one with the will and power to move on.
@Shiva49 (26192)
• Singapore
22 Jul 17
A life that inspires others to press on despite adversities. Thanks for the share - siva
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
22 Jul 17
You're welcome. She is one of a kind, that is for sure. And a truly honest and upfront person.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Nov 16
I have been through more hell than you could imagine. I believe without God I would have never survived.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
4 Dec 16
Well, that works for you and that's great. For me no way. But we all have to believe what we need to to get through things. But she is one amazing person, without a doubt.
1 Aug 17
she deserve a thousand clap
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
2 Aug 17
She deserves a standing ovation with thousands and millions of applause.