Ouch...my heart has been struck

@carebear29 (28586)
Wausau, Wisconsin
September 15, 2016 11:09am CST
So I went to my friends house this morning to see him and he had told me B was there so I could come over and talk. Well, needless to say while I was there I could not believe the stuff I was seeing for myself. All I could think about is is I been played. And yes another player. While I was there he was sleeping next to another girl and on top of it after they woke up, they were all over each other too. I am so devastated and yet we're suppose to meet up later and "talk." Well, I am going to tell him how I truly feel and the things that I did for him and what not but that is if he shows up. I am just seriously broken now after seeing what people had told me is now true. I still love him and have heart for him but now I just don't know anymore. I am tired of being played. Sorry, needed to vent this. BRB later!
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
15 Sep 16
I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. I know how much he means to you. It is so hard to tell your heart to stop loving somebody and to not care. It takes time to get over somebody. He has clearly moved on because you seen it with your own eyes. You deserve so much better then being treated this way. My heart hurts for you. We are here to listen and support you in any way that we can. Hugs
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Sep 16
Thanks. I do deserve better for sure.
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@Tina30219 (34192)
• Onaway, Michigan
22 Sep 16
@carebear29 You sure do. Any chance you can make things work with your husband? Or would you rather move on to something else? Either way I wish you all the best what ever you decide to do.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
22 Sep 16
@Tina30219 I am sure trying but it seems like he is making no effort.
@ms1864 (6986)
• Bangalore, India
15 Sep 16
Oh My Goodness! This is like putting salt on the wound. Hope you get to give him a piece of your mind and get it off your back.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Sep 16
Right, thanks. It is. We are at least friends still now.
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@ms1864 (6986)
• Bangalore, India
16 Sep 16
you are still friends? wow...you have more patience than i do.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Sep 16
@ms1864 Yeah. We are pretty close though too
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@miniam (9241)
• Bern, Switzerland
15 Sep 16
I feel this had been planned all along to tell you politely to back off.In my opinion and if it were me,IT`S NOT HEALTHY emotionally to go out of one relationship directly into the next especially as you always said your marriage is not always easy.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Sep 16
I know. I hear it a lot. This is just how I am though
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@miniam (9241)
• Bern, Switzerland
16 Sep 16
@carebear29 then you will keep getting hurt.
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@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
17 Sep 16
nikki run don't walk from players they will just break your heart and your love is wasted on them, you are young enough to find that one man God picked out just for you and you will find him and you will know when you do he will not play you he will love you and ony you divorce and wait you will meet him
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Sep 16
Right. My marriage is a good example. I married a guy who don't know what he wants anymore.
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@Hatley (164654)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Sep 16
@carebear29 thats sad wish he would s hape up or leave not fair to you
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Sep 16
@Hatley Right I know.
• United States
17 Sep 16
Oh my that is awful! I don't know how I would act going through that you are a lot tougher than I am! Is it someone you still have to have contact with or can you cut ties?
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Sep 16
It is hard but I am making due for sure.
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• United States
22 Sep 16
@carebear29 I hope things are going smoother by now.
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@ricki_911 (19451)
• Toronto, Ontario
17 Sep 16
He is disrespectful.I think for your own sanity you should cut him off.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Sep 16
Yep but we are still friends.
@RasmaSandra (17530)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Sep 16
He is not worth your time. It is now up to you to just move on and forget him. It can only get worse not better @carebear29 and it also shows that he has no sympathy or understanding of how you feel.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Sep 16
Yep. We still remain friends though
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@jstory07 (67059)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Sep 16
Yes you were being played. I hope you can recover from this. That is just mean to do that to you.
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@carebear29 (28586)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
16 Sep 16
Yep it is. But I am have caught it before it went further.