I need some ideas....

Bhubaneshwar, India
September 17, 2016 12:36pm CST
Guys, I need some ideas for not getting married. I have already tried to tell my parents but it's like talking to wall. They won't even listen to me....
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6 responses
@skysnap (20154)
17 Sep 16
haha get married, i am in 30s and feel bad for not getitng married sometimes :p
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• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
@skysnap you've had your times for being single or not married ya? well, pros and cons.
@skysnap (20154)
17 Sep 16
@DominicHzd i was financially crashed so remained single.. parents asked me to get married in such time but i didn't wanted any woman to suffer in such financial phase... now i am in 30s i can get married but it's hard.. to fall in love now.... now marriage will happen to get rid of loneliness .. who knows i may fall in love but it's hard you know.
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• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
@skysnap i totally understand what u r trying to say. You know pressure like your peers or even parents... but i think u have to be honest with what u r really facing, with that, throwing away that ego, maybe u will find that optimal way of natures coarse.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
17 Sep 16
Unfortunately in India, it's almost mandatory @princemaxp . However, if you are of legal age, you could tell them that you would rather leave the household and sever all ties with them, than get married. See how they like that one.
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
18 Sep 16
@DominicHzd Indian marriage have two function, one from the girl side and another from boy side....ofcourse girl's side cost is greater than boy's side.
• Bhubaneshwar, India
18 Sep 16
@nanette64 I have also tried this trick....but the thing is I also love them & could not leave them & they know it !!
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• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
but if im not wrong, in india the cost of marriage is actually handled by the females family side i suppose?
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
19 Sep 16
Just tell your parents that you are not yet ready to get married .. and make them understand that it's not up to them .. It is your life and that's it..
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
19 Sep 16
I am still trying to tell them.....hope they will understand !!!
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15 Oct 16
I had never imagined getting married until I met my ex-boyfriend,now my husband. Many were surprised when we started sending wedding invitation.
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
16 Oct 16
when I will meet my ex i will surely marry her....if she agrees then. But my ex don't even remember me....
@mavlana (1019)
• India
21 Sep 16
You are on wrong track.You are wandering. .. c'mon friend...stop it.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
21 Sep 16
@princemaxp Love yourself...that's the very first need.
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
21 Sep 16
@mavlana I love myself so much as no one would love
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
21 Sep 16
What is the right track ??
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
First of all, why do u not want to marry? is it because of financial issues or pressure of the change?
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
18 Sep 16
I am not ready for marriage, reason is both financial and pressure of the change....I am just 25 and I still have to make my financial position strong so that I would not face problem in future life. I also have been living alone without any relationship, and suddenly they are forcing me to get married ......I am just afraid of being in relationship.