I Have To Return My Pet Dog, My Heart Is Broken In Sadness

I am so sad.
@cacay1 (32551)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
September 18, 2016 7:30am CST
You already knew that Cap Arthur a cute pup is a gift from a classmate, friend and ex - suitor during college .I learned to love my sweet pup. My family also feels the same way I do. So sad, when I opened my Facebook this evening , the wife of Arthur messaged me feeling jealous and thinking malicious things between me and my best friend, her husband . My goodness how nice to burn her alive. I blocked her right away. I cannot take her words.Why is she judgmental when I haven't met Arthur since 2008? Arthur gave me a pup gift as a token of our friendship and the favor he seeks from me , that is, to help his 3 nephews enroll in the university where I am teaching. Of course, he needs someone to help his nephews for passing grades are hard to get in our university especially the course they intend to enroll , BS Architecture, 5 year course. I texted Benjie, Arthur's brother to get back the pup tomorrow morning in the guard's gate in school. I want to close the book of friendship with Arthur because of his nagger wife. I do not like this problem created by another person that involved and distracted my whole being. I hope my decision is acceptable by everyone. I am truly sad. I will miss my pet. I have to let him sleep with me on bed this evening to have some sweet memories of Cap Arthur.Goodbye my dogie,. Image by Pixabay
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@BelleStarr (37105)
• Portland, Connecticut
18 Sep 16
If you really love this dog then keep it. If you give it back she wins!! She shouldn't win she is a ..itch.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@BelleStarr , Oh, you are such a brave and strong lady, I like you, but I already called Benjie and told Arthur's wife that I will return the pup for she might die from too much unjustifiable jealousy.
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@BelleStarr (37105)
• Portland, Connecticut
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 And that would be bad why????
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@yukimori (9041)
• United States
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 She might die from too much unjustifiable jealousy? Couldn't happen to a better person, if you ask me...
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@CinnamonGrl (5740)
• Paradise, California
18 Sep 16
I understand why you are doing what you're doing. But you shouldn't have to feel like you have to return a pet. The dog already found a good home.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@CinnamonGrl , The kids at home do nit know that dogie will be returned.They are still sleeping this time. I will leave home so early to avoid their knowledge. After replying you all here, I will rush to school.
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@RasmaSandra (16662)
• Riga, Latvia
19 Sep 16
@cacay1 I don't understand why you want to return the dog. If you love the dog there is no reason to return him Just don't make any contact with your friend and his awful wife.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 16
@RasmaSandra , Yes dear, I no longer return my poet. He is mine and I love him. he is so sweet and he makes people at home happy.
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@jaboUK (53448)
• United Kingdom
18 Sep 16
That doesn't seem right that you should have to give up your pup just because that woman is jealous.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@jaboUK , That is what makes her jealous why Arthur gave me pup gift.Fo her it is malicious, bad lady, unprofessional.
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@ramapo17 (22632)
• Melbourne, Florida
19 Sep 16
@cacay1 She is only going to have other ways to get angry with her husband. I hope she doesn't harm the dog as she will remember you every time she looks at it.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Sep 16
@ramapo17 , She is a mad woman, insecure when she is the wife.I haven't met Arthur since 2008.
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@Corbin5 (100341)
• United States
18 Sep 16
Well, I would keep Cap Arthur and ignore the wife. You have already done a good deed for the giver of the pup, so I would not let someone bully me into giving a dog I love back to them. You deserve Cap Arthur, in my opinion.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@Corbin5, I hope he will be returned to me. I hope his wife will realize her faults. Arthur may surely feel insulted.
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@Corbin5 (100341)
• United States
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 I hope he is returned to you too.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Sep 16
@Corbin5 Thanks friend, I hope too.
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@thelme55 (14039)
• Germany
18 Sep 16
Oh my. So sorry to hear about that. The pet was already given to you and I think you don't have to return it to that woman. She was not the one who gave it to you. I am really so sorry.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@thelme55 , You know Thel, that lady barks as if not a professional. She doe not know that Arthur was my classmate and best friend during college.he courted me but we never became lovers. It is not my type to be in a relationship with a best friend. I better return the dog to stop her blood to continue boiling.
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@thelme55 (14039)
• Germany
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 now I understand. That kind of woman is not worth the trouble. She will never be happy if she stays a jealous and a nagger wife. Men don't like this kind of a woman. Just buy a new pet for yourself. Good night.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@thelme55 , Thanks friend, I always hug Cap now which he likes much. I am afraid he will cry tomorrow when I turned over him to Benjie and I will never look back.
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• United States
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 I pray that she gives the puppy back and realizes her lack of concern over the well being of the puppy Her attitude is so poor.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@Berniezeitler , I like your words Bernie, thanks so much.
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@JudyEv (119203)
• Bunbury, Australia
18 Sep 16
That is very sad. I'm sorry you feel you have to give the dog back.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@JudyEv , Yes, to have peace of mid. I do not like this trouble so disturbing.
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@Ritu96 (902)
• Sonipat, India
18 Sep 16
buy another pet...u will forget him. U took the right decision to give back the pup
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@Ritu96 , That is a very good suggestion,thanks friend.
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• Singapore, Singapore
18 Sep 16
@Ritu96 no pets would be forgotten. Another pup will never be the same again. But i guess true in getting another pet. But not to forget the previous one but to have one on her own to keep her company throughout. @cacay1 i had similar experience. Baileyz (my pet poodle) was a gift from my ex-husband. When we separated i could only give Baileyz up cos he and his family could provide him with a better life. I am no longer friends with my ex. I miss Baileyz dearly from time to time. But i guess nothing much i can do. Part and parcel of life. I hope Baileyz doesnt hate me...
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@XinfulThotz h, thatb was so sad too, we feel the bad beat f the heart.
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@sunrisefan (17132)
• Philippines
18 Sep 16
If you did not let go of your dog, you would still have to leave him when you fly to NZ next month.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@sunrisefan , yes friend, but my sister would take care of my pet.
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@sunrisefan (17132)
• Philippines
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 It would still make you sad just the same so better to have the sadness now while you're still here.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@sunrisefan Thank you My. Korean.Good night, so sleepy now from too much worries and loneliness.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
18 Sep 16
I'm sorry, that is terrible. I don't think you need to give it back but the choice is yours of course. I couldn't give a dog back-ever. My dogs are my babies, like my second kids.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@LovingMyBabies , My decision really hurts me, but, no choice.I want to keep her mouth shut.I am so sure they will quarrel.
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@ramapo17 (22632)
• Melbourne, Florida
19 Sep 16
@cacay1 They are going to quarrel anyway. The dog is not the issue, she knows you are a decent person and knows how to get to you. Dogs are like children, he will always remember you and miss you.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Sep 16
@ramapo17 , You are right friend, they will surely quarrel regarding the dog.You are so right, dogs are like children. He will surely recognize me.
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@amadeo (61965)
• United States
18 Sep 16
I would not have given the puppy back.No way
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@amadeo , Oh, I am so confused.
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@Shavkat (56927)
• Philippines
18 Sep 16
That's a heartbreaking moment. Can I have it?
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@Shavkat, You may try to look at my pet in my previews discussion Shavs, he is so cite and sweet.
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@LeaPea2417 (19221)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Sep 16
You should be able to keep the dog.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@LeaPea2417. Much to my desire, but my friend's wife is a witch.
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@LeaPea2417 (19221)
• Toccoa, Georgia
19 Sep 16
@cacay1 That is sad how some people are so mean.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 16
@LeaPea2417 Cruel woman, irrational, but the pup chased me in the gate yesterday. He jumped out from the person who hold him and chased me, I was so touched and decided not to give hem back, He is my gift so he is mine. I have to fight for it.
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@Happy2BeMe (74560)
• Canada
18 Sep 16
I am very sorry to read this. It breaks my hurt. She is a cruel and evil woman and you are doing the right thing by getting them our of your life. Nobody needs to deal with such immature drama. Best of luck to you and Cap Arthur.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe,very well said dear, yes right, immature drama. I know I can manage this.I have to be realistic too.Thank you so much.
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@Happy2BeMe (74560)
• Canada
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 you are welcome. All the best to you.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Sep 16
@Happy2BeMe Thanks dear.
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@7864aru (170)
• Pune, India
18 Sep 16
I love dogs. They are very special but you have taken right decision. Just don't forget to meet your pet initially so it will comfortable for both of you to adjust.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
Thanks , he will be returned tomorrow to stop the conflict .
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@yukimori (9041)
• United States
18 Sep 16
@cacay1 If she really thinks there's something going on between you and her husband, it's not going to stop the conflict.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@yukimori , Yeah though I haven't met my friend again since 2008, too much jealousy will kill her.
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@yukimori (9041)
• United States
18 Sep 16
Hon, her feelings are 100% unreasonable. Her behavior is borderline psychotic, and absolutely none of that is on you. You're not responsible for managing her feelings. Nobody is besides her... and she's doing a really bad job of it. I get why you'd want to return the dog and cut that tie, but you shouldn't have to. Honestly, she's probably not going to let up on the harassment even if you return the dog. She's not a normal, rational person. If she's convinced herself that the reality she's created for herself--which apparently involves you attempting to steal her husband from her--is true, she's going to keep lashing out at you. It wouldn't surprise me if she ended up making a new account just to keep messaging you despite being blocked. Personally, I wouldn't return the pet to him. She's already mad at you and she thinks that the fact that her husband gave you the dog is a sign of something more going on. With how irrational she's being, I'd be concerned that she would take her anger out on the dog and hurt it.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@yukimori , Thank you Yuki, but I already made a decision. I do not like to get involved with their lives.It's my friend who needs my help,but her wife is so irrational. She said she would meet me in person ha ha, nice if that is what she will do.She is 102% accepted to be a witch visitor.She might collapse from shame of her psychotic action.
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@hereandthere (28985)
• Philippines
18 Sep 16
maybe his wife doesn't know that he asked for your help with his 3 nephews?
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@hereandthere, I think husband and wife must have no secret. She might have known about it, but ignored her jealousy and she was able to trace me thru Facebook.
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@responsiveme (14476)
• India
18 Sep 16
That is bad....she really is carrying jealousy too far.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
18 Sep 16
@responsiveme , She made a big mistake misjudging me.he does not know my sincerity .
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• Philippines
19 Sep 16
What kind of a person would get jealous over some one giving you a pup? Makes me wonder how he could chose such a woman, so insecure and all. I think the pup deserves your love rather giving away because of this woman's insecurities. But maybe you made a right decision to end the friendship with him if he can't control his wife's insecured attitude.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Sep 16
@Letranknight2015, Thanks friend, by the way was forced to marry the girl because he was cornered during a party, he was drunk . He doesn't not drink, but it seems the lady his wife now has planned to make him drunk and after that she brought Arthur is her room and called her father telling that Arthur mus marry her for something bad happened to them. Her father is Arthur's boss , if he won't marry, he will be dismissed from work and disfranchised and be jailed .My friend according to his brother was living in hell with the woman he does not like and love.
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@ramapo17 (22632)
• Melbourne, Florida
20 Sep 16
@cacay1 Gee, what a mess.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 16
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@akalinus (14611)
• United States
18 Sep 16
If the pup was a gift, why should you return it? If you help the nephews, then you are fulfilling the terms of the gift. Her feelings should not enter into it. She is going to lose him with tactics like that.
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Sep 16
@akalinus , She is unreasonable woman, rebellious and she expressed in my FB false accusations.She was so mad about the dog as a gift for me by my friend, now her husband.
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@akalinus (14611)
• United States
19 Sep 16
@cacay1 That is so sad!
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@cacay1 (32551)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Sep 16
@akalinus ,really bad and terrible minded-woman, irrational mind.
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