Would it be wrong if i didn't attend the wedding?

Honestly, I can understand your concerns. No one wants to be in an uncomfortable situation. So it is understandable that you may not want to go. But if his son did invite you as well, I don't think it's wrong if you went as well. At the end of the day though, you should do what you think is best. Maybe talk to your fiancé and see what he says.

if his son invited you, then it's not inappropriate to see you there. your fiance might also need your support.. you said you'd be there a few days ahead of the wedding. maybe it's good for the ex-couple to talk, even if on the phone, before the face-to-face on the actual day? maybe the mom and the rest of the family is aware you're invited, too.

I also feel the same way if I am not acquainted in the crowd. But then, I think it is a good chance to meet new faces.

I think you need to go, you are your fiancee's partner, this other woman is from his distant past. I think he will appreciate your support.

You have very valid concerns. Talk it over with your fiancé, and let him know what you're feeling inside. A wedding should be a happy, joyous occasion for everyone, including those attending. If you're stressing and anxious over the situation, then you're definitely not going to have a good time. Just lay everything out on the table, speak with your fiancé, and let him know what's going on in your heart.

His son has invited you both, i think you should go. You are not an outsider but a part of your fiance's life, but then you both have to make the decision .

Your fiance is proud of you and you are his family now. And as you are invited, you should put your thoughts on what to wear. They never handled anything as mother and father. This will not be the begining of a good friendship.

not wrong at all - if you wouldn't enjoy it then skip out - tension between you and your ex would potentially ruin the atmosphere for the bride and groom - see how you feel nearer the time

From my point of view, this is not wrong at all. Everyone is entitled to make their own decision.

You just might enjoy yourself

Ya I'd be apprehensive myself, definitely have a chat with your fiancé and see what he says.

Okay, what I understand is the groom is your ex. Right? If so, I would suggest that you go to show that you are "sport" . . If you don't, it shows that you hate seeing your ex marry another woman. This is just what I think. I may be wrong.

Who's wedding is it? If it is your Ex getting remarried, you absolutely shouldn't go unless you are on very friendly relations. If it is one of your children getting married, you need to be there regardless of whether he is there or not. Your place is with your children. If it is a friend you both know, it would be supportive to your friend for you to be there. So not knowing the situation I can only give you examples.

Feelings can never be wrong...how you feel is how you feel. How you deal with those feelings is another matter

You could understand the situation better, ,how you are with them and how they are with you.Depending on that and listen what your heart says go ahead. Others decision might bring variance in all your relations.

It is absolutely normal to feel how you feel about the whole thing .. But you are in a relationship so you are not an outsider.. When my step sons got married, I attended and their mother were there too and the entire family .. I made sure though that I know my place ..

My sister was in the same situation and wished that she hadn't gone to the wedding. Good thing that my sister can stand up for herself!!

I'm not sure what the issues are but It is up to you to do what you feel is right for you. Its up to you to make that choice.

No..it would be wrong. Try to attend the wedding with all members. This is a marriage not an ordinary function. Once you missed means ..oh..no...pls. attend..no more things of excuses

Nop. You are completely entitled to feel this way....you do what feels right to you.