World War II Veteran

@jennyjoy (1961)
Bangalore, India
September 26, 2016 2:21am CST
My father-in-law is a veteran of World War II.He is one hundred and four years old.He was a prisoner of war and spent six years in a prison camp somewhere in Japan. Before getting enlisted,he had a large crucifix tattooed on his chest for the specific reason should he die on the battle field,that would be one way of identifying his body.The tattoo has now got a greenish ting to it but otherwise clear. He lost all his teeth when in prison camp. Never had teeth since,no dentures either.. He has never spoken about his time as a prisoner of war to any of his children (nine of them) so it remains a mystery. Even today ,he gets out of bed at four in the morning, has a bath,washes his clothes,though of late his daughters do his laundry, sits in his chair,reads his Bible,says his prayers.Then doses off on the chair,he refuses to lie on the bed,topples over quite often,gets up and quietly sits down again.He doesn't want us to know that he's been for a toss. His breakfast ,lunch and dinner including a mid-morning snack and tea have to be served on the dot.Or else he will skip it altogether.My FIL is a perfect gentleman,even today if a lady walks into the room,he stands up and waits for her to be seated.The table should be laid.He is always perfectly groomed.None of us have seen him in PJ's. He still walks upright,no walking stick. Doesn't use spectacles,hates medicine,loves glucose. He is amazing!!
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@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
26 Sep 16
Great that even after all he's been through, he's still around at 104! And without teeth at that? Hoping for more years for him.
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
26 Sep 16
Thank you for your good wishes.Something to do with genes,I think.Everyone in their family lives to about this age.
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@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
26 Sep 16
@jennyjoy That's good.
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
27 Sep 16
@sofssu (23662)
29 Sep 16
He sounds like an amazing person.. The tough times in life teaches us so much about life we would other wise never learn I guess.
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
29 Sep 16
That's when we realize what we are made of.
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• Preston, England
26 Sep 16
sounds an incredible man
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
26 Sep 16
He is incredible,yet so humble for all the attention he gets.
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
27 Sep 16
Indeed, he is amazing! It's a shame though that he never talked about his experience during those times ..
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
27 Sep 16
He has always been an introvert. It is sad that,history lost.
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@Shiva49 (26190)
• Singapore
2 Oct 16
Reminds me of my own father who was a medical officer holding the rank of captain during World War ll. He was also a stickler of discipline and punctuality. He was fiercely independent till his last moments. They are a rare breed indeed! He never wanted to talk about his experiences as he told us those were tough times. He might have been thinking of colleagues who perished; too sad to recall. Even I do not like to recall or talk of my tough times as one can never relate the real moments of touch and go that would have altered my life landing me in another zone! siva
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@Shiva49 (26190)
• Singapore
3 Oct 16
@jennyjoy I move with many nationalities and we are just the same with similar hopes and aspirations. The 99% have no issues but the 1% create enmity and wars. That cycle has to be broken to move humanity to a higher level of consciousness and coexistence - siva
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
3 Oct 16
But it is sad to see them so lost in thought most of the time.You may be correct in saying that we could never be able to relate to their tough times so they don't discuss it.I would love to spend time talking to my FIL but my SIL's don't like that.
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@jennyjoy (1961)
• Bangalore, India
3 Oct 16
@Shiva49 Why don't people realize that they are being used as pawns to further the cause and comforts of the rich and powerful.
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