I lied and I feel good.

@sharon6345 (125835)
United States
September 26, 2016 12:50pm CST
I wen to pick up a deposit for the funeral. I got there and a friend of mine was acting like I needed help. She holds me and whispers if I want her to get the number to the crisis team. I am standing there with no issue what so ever and that is what she whispers in my ear. Then I looked at her like she was crazy. I said thanks very much but I am in a rush I must leave. Then she said,oh yeah we are celebrating your birthday Thursday. I can't wait. I said I am canceling the party. I am not up to it. She looked sad on well it's your brother's birthday too go party with him. lol She just wanted to see me break down.
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6 responses
@yukimori (9047)
• United States
26 Sep 16
You should feel good... nobody needs the support of someone who's only doing it for their own purposes, not to actually help the person they're supporting through a tough time. Personally, I wouldn't see her again after that BS. That seems like one more toxic relationship to drop like a hot potato.
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@topffer (34159)
• France
26 Sep 16
I had not read your response, but we have the same conclusions about this person.
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@sharon6345 (125835)
• United States
26 Sep 16
she is not welcomed here at all after that. I was not willing to say anything with her donation in my hand. I know now that she is not my friend.
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@akalinus (15720)
• United States
26 Sep 16
@sharon6345 Bad times show you who is and is not a friend. You may be surprised.
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@Happy2BeMe (74743)
• Canada
26 Sep 16
omg seriously..some people!!
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@sharon6345 (125835)
• United States
26 Sep 16
Yes that is why I lied
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@Hate2Iron (7858)
• Canada
26 Sep 16
Good heavens... didn't see that coming!!
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@sharon6345 (125835)
• United States
26 Sep 16
I did know something was going to happen.
@CinnamonGrl (5807)
• Paradise, California
26 Sep 16
Oh my god. What the hell s WRONG with people?
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@sharon6345 (125835)
• United States
26 Sep 16
She just wanted to see something to talk about.
@akalinus (15720)
• United States
26 Sep 16
It might seem like she wanted to help but I don't think so. That is really strange.
@sharon6345 (125835)
• United States
26 Sep 16
No she was not trying to help me. Not at all.
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@akalinus (15720)
• United States
26 Sep 16
@sharon6345 I agree, but she was trying to look good in front of others.
@akalinus (15720)
• United States
26 Sep 16
@sharon6345 That is the best policy. Nothing would be gained by talking to her any further.
@celticeagle (118255)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Sep 16
Some people are so unbelievably unfeeling and indelicate in situations where they should be. Hope she stays away.
@sharon6345 (125835)
• United States
26 Sep 16
She messaged me when I got home I just ignored her.
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@celticeagle (118255)
• Boise, Idaho
27 Sep 16
@sharon6345 ......Sounds like she needs to be phased out.