How Do You Deal With Irritating People?
September 26, 2016 2:55pm CST
What do you when you get pissed off with someone else? I'm a person who doesn't talk a lot and I usually avoid getting into argument with anyone. I have this co-worker I get pissed off most of the time. I easily get irritated with her but I couldn't tell her straight that her behavior bothers me. I do not want to dwell on my negative emotions so I'm doing my best to ignore her behavior and instead focus on her positive aspect. I just want to know the best way to deal with her because I want to be a better person. I do not want to be always irritated or angry with somebody else especially with someone I work with all the time.
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26 Sep 16
You're right @zarlamain. It's better to ignore the person who irritates you, but sometime I just couldn't stop myself from getting irritated. I don't know. Maybe it's just me not knowing how to control my negative emotions. :) thanks for the comment
27 Sep 16
@zarlamain but I what I wanted to avoid is the irritation that I feel whenever she does something I do not like. She evokes negative emotions in me which I try to avoid all the time. I wanted to focus on the positive side of life. Life is too short to get irritated with anyone. So, I think the problem lies in me. :D I should not get affected by her. I should stay positive no matter what.
27 Sep 16
Good thing you can still be civil with her despite the fact that she annoys you always . I can say that you are have a good control of your emotions. I bet, if that is my situation , i would avoid the person , so i won't be stressed whenever i see her .