What do you think about marriage
• United States
26 Sep 06
Marriage is beautiful when you truly love each other and are willing to keep loving each other no matter what it takes to make things work. Being able to trust someone with your deepest thoughts, failures, stupid quirks, your weaknesses and strengths and they still love you and want to be with you, is a feeling so intense. The passion that comes from having this relationship can grow or dwindle away. To love is a choice, knowing that your spouse chooses to love you and marry you with the commitment of being forever is mind blowing.
25 Sep 06
When someone begins on that arrangement called marriage, he is getting into something which is, to say the least, adventurous. When a couple get married, they are doing something they know nothing about. And, from all indications, when they have tried it more than once, they know no more about it the second time than they did the first. Marriage is the foundation of the family unit. In this society and time, the family is the closest knit, self-perpetuating, self-protecting unit. It is necessary economically and otherwise to the society the way it is set up in present time. A culture will go by the boards if its basic building block, the family, is removed as a valid building block. So one can be fairly sure that he who destroys marriage destroys the civilization. The marriage relationship, basically, is a postulated relationship. A postulate is a conclusion, decision or resolution about something. When people stop postulating a marriage, it ceases to exist. That is what happens to most marriages. It isn’t the other way around. It isn’t that all men are evil, so therefore, contracts such as marriage dissolve usually in infidelity and go all to pieces. That is not true. The reverse is true. When you have a purely postulated relationship, you have to continue to create it. And a family which doesn’t continue to create itself as a family will cease to exist as a family. That’s about all you need to know about it. "A marriage is something which exists primarily because each partner has postulated its existence and its continued existence. Only with this foundation in place are marriages successful."
21 Sep 06
Marriage, the awesome responsibility one can take. Although it has been tagged that once you get married, you ought to get a quiet life, but not all are well succesful, there are those who end up in divorce. Me and my wife for instance, we were happy to get married, have kids, have some petty fights, get separated for a short time, then back again to each other, I mean marriage can give you lots of unusual things and that the essence, the only worst thing that can happen in marriage is when you have children and you get separated, you see the only victim to this situation is your children, they are the once suffering. To all of you who are already married, be faithful(stick to one), respect each other and try to listen. Sometimes listening helps solve each others acquaintances.
• United States
16 Sep 06
To look into your lovers eyes and see the same girlish eyes of yesteryear, still chasing after her in your boyish ways, To see the kids copying your antic's and jumping in the middle of your embrace. Then I realize my feeling's are like yesterday 15 Years later and still see her inner beauty.