what should i do when i'm dating someone unofficially and..

United States
September 7, 2006 8:51pm CST
i start liking someone else who has a girlfriend and neither of us wants to hurt anyone but we cant stop thinking about each other and want to hangout and be together? what should i do? oh yeah and he's one of my brother's friends.
3 responses
• United States
11 Sep 06
Does ur brother know?
@sedel1027 (17855)
• United States
8 Sep 06
If he cares for you, he should leave his girlfriend. Honestly, I wouldn't date him anymore until he did so (you could still hang out as friends). He is being unfair to his current GF, himself and to you. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you feel?
• United States
8 Sep 06
I think the best option for you is for you both to be honest with those you are dating. If you are open and honest, they will be upset but it is better they find out from you and it shows integrity and respect on your part.