Staying out of anything but love hurts..
October 7, 2016 9:39am CST
A family member of mine been living with her ex for 20 years. She has the bedroom and he has the living room. She is not on the lease and if he were to leave or die she could not afford the rent. He has a housing grant and won't put her on it. Claiming he does not want her to pay rent. I don't go for that. I told her don't stop till she is on it. She will always be able to afford the rent after that. It goes by your income. I pray that she wise up an know where she will be if anything happened. They live in Manhattan and she can't afford any rent without that grant. It's terrible to stay for any reason not involving love. You just can't be at your best.