I said no and it felt good.

@sharon6345 (109639)
United States
October 13, 2016 1:05am CST
Yesterday my pockets went $200 lighter due to my baby getting married. Well,it's about 2 am and I am on the phone. I was just asked for $100 and I said no. I felt so bad that I almost said come get it. Then I thought about the $400 I gave last month. That hurt me big time. Now $200 yesterday. The only way I can give up this $100 is to give it away. I can't loan anything and not get it back. It would ruin our relationship. So I don't have it. Nope I am going to hide my money today.
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@shaynas (5561)
• India
13 Oct 16
It's ok to say no at times :)
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@sharon6345 (109639)
• United States
13 Oct 16
I have a hard time saying no.
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@shaynas (5561)
• India
13 Oct 16
@sharon6345 I understand, it's not easy for everyone to say No. I stand in the same category. Say No and keep feeling bad about it.
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@sharon6345 (109639)
• United States
13 Oct 16
@shaynas Lol I hear ya I am sure he knows I have the money though.
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@carexing25 (1829)
• Philippines
13 Oct 16
It's not a bad thing.. you just have to leave something for youself
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@sharon6345 (109639)
• United States
13 Oct 16
That is what I plan to do.
@TRBRocks420 (62166)
• Banks, Oregon
13 Oct 16
Sounds like a good idea to me.
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@sharon6345 (109639)
• United States
13 Oct 16
I am super hapy and just hope to not change my mind.
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@Happy2BeMe (70142)
• Canada
13 Oct 16
Sometimes you have to say no and yes it does feel good when you know you just can't do it! You did the right thing!
@sharon6345 (109639)
• United States
13 Oct 16
That is why I feel so good.
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@Happy2BeMe (70142)
• Canada
13 Oct 16
• New Delhi, India
13 Oct 16
Its normal to say no attimes
@sharon6345 (109639)
• United States
13 Oct 16
That is how it should be.
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@NJChicaa (29938)
• United States
13 Oct 16
I'm glad you said no.
@jstory07 (58204)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Oct 16
Take care of yourself first you are to nice to other people and they take from you and never give back.