I want nothing to do with her at this point.

@sharon6345 (106083)
United States
October 18, 2016 9:11am CST
I am hurting parent and watching my child be abused is killing me. The cops are here and she is just worried about him going to jail. They said if he hit you that is domestic violence and a charge. They even offered to take her to the domestic shelter. God dam it what the hell does she want now. All the help in the world handed to her and she refuses yet again. She just left my room pleading with me to tell them it's all ok. I could not do that. I was honest and told them I witnessed his abuse. I legally have no freaking rights to file charges. What the hell can a parent do when a child is in danger. The cop told her that this will escalate and I could very well bury my child. Just last week when I called and they did not come. They just found the body of a missing woman that her boyfriend killed. I am on my knees asking God for all the strength i can get. I want her out my dam house.
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• Jacksonville, Florida
18 Oct 16
I'm so sorry. There's only so much you can do, which is the tough part. =(
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@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
I did it though I got her to listen to me.
@NJChicaa (28277)
• United States
18 Oct 16
I am sorry that this is so serious. I wish they didn't get married.
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@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
He took off the ring and gave it too her. It's over now.
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@RitzzView (2576)
• India
19 Oct 16
Your daughter is being abused always or it was once?
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
19 Oct 16
Oh not always not at all. it was a argument that got out of hand. He normally would not ever let it go that far. last month they were over heated an neither would listen and she got hurt.
@RitzzView (2576)
• India
19 Oct 16
@sharon6345 Oh.. It was one time.. Then. .how about giving him one chance? Like, its been a month, if he would actually have been more abusive till now if he wanted to. Its so clear that its not the case.
@celticeagle (114155)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Oct 16
She needs to take advantage of the domestic shelter. Isn't that what was in the works in the beginning?
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
Yes but she really does not want to go. I can manage her here if he is not here.
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@celticeagle (114155)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Oct 16
@sharon6345 .....Yes, the two don't seem to do well together.
@Happy2BeMe (66586)
• Canada
18 Oct 16
I am so sorry you are dealing with this. I am sorry she feels she has to defend him. I am sorry she did not take the help when it was offered to her. I wish I knew what to say besides I am sorry you are hurting so badly for you and your baby girl.
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
she is hoe where i can see her. hat is good enough.
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@Happy2BeMe (66586)
• Canada
18 Oct 16
@sharon6345 I am glad to hear that
@mom210 (5800)
• Atlanta, Georgia
18 Oct 16
i am so sorry. You are doing the right thing though. pray hard and just love her
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
I am going t be right here for her.
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@dodo19 (27714)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Oct 16
I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. It can't be hard. I hope that you are able to get through this alright. I wish you luck.
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
Thanks for that.
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• United States
18 Oct 16
I am sorry for what you and your daughter are going through. The only thing you can do is be there for her at all times and try to be supportive. It is hard for someone in an abusive relationship to see that the person they are with is actually bad for them. It might take a while for her to realize that this person is no good for her. Eventually she will see that he is worthless and not worth her time, but don't give up on her and leave her because that will just make it worse for her. She will feel like she is even more alone and that you don't love or want to be around her anymore and right now that is not what she needs.
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
she has a bed to sleep in she will be ok.
@msiduri (5841)
• United States
18 Oct 16
*HUG*
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
Thanks.
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@CinnamonGrl (5612)
• Paradise, California
18 Oct 16
I can only imagine how helpless you are feeling.
@sharon6345 (106083)
• United States
18 Oct 16
Not in a million years. It feels horrible.