I feel a little better now.

@sharon6345 (106467)
United States
October 18, 2016 11:57am CST
We sat down and we had a very long talk. I poured my soul out to her to let her know how I feel about her and her situation. I told he I don't tolerate domestic abuse. I was open about my abuse and also my walking away and pressing charges. My daughter knows she needs help and I will help her. I told her that There is no time like today to up and leave. She believes he loves her. I explained that he does not love her. That is something she can't see for now. Well he came here and she met him at the door. She is packing up his stuff to give him right now. He will be just fine now outside of my home. I told her that she is welcome to stay as long as she is not letting him in. If she can't be trusted with that she needs to leave with him.
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@RitzzView (2576)
• India
19 Oct 16
Hope it doesn't turn the opposite way. And turn out the way you want..
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
19 Oct 16
That is going to be just fine. I am sure of it.
@RitzzView (2576)
• India
19 Oct 16
@sharon6345 That's great then...
@NJChicaa (28384)
• United States
18 Oct 16
I'm happy to hear that she was receptive to what you had to say.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
I hope she wil be that way over the next few days. God knows it will be hard.
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@NJChicaa (28384)
• United States
18 Oct 16
@sharon6345 yes it will be very hard
@celticeagle (114256)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Oct 16
I wonder if people who get married realize what all that entails. If their partner takes on any debts they are also responsible. Things like that. If she gets the help she needs maybe she can help him or vice versa. I would not want him there either.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
She is now laughing with her friend. That is what I want to hear her doing. she will cry when she leaves and I will be right here.
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@celticeagle (114256)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Oct 16
@sharon6345 ....That is nice to hear.
@dodo19 (27729)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Oct 16
It can't be an easy situation for anyone. But at least you told her how you felt. She knows that. It's at least something. Hopefully, she leaves him before it's too late.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
She will be hurt for a while but it will only get better.
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@dodo19 (27729)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Oct 16
@sharon6345 Time will certainly make things better. She just needs time.
@Happy2BeMe (66858)
• Canada
18 Oct 16
I am glad that you had a nice long talk and that you are allowing her to stay there as long as she stays away from him and does not allow him in your home. She knows she needs help and she knows you are there for her. I hope she begins to realize that this is not love. No person who loves her would abuse her.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
I won't bother keeping her away from him. she can always find a way around that. I want him out of here.
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@Happy2BeMe (66858)
• Canada
18 Oct 16
@sharon6345 yes I understand that
@carebear29 (25653)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
18 Oct 16
That is good to hear.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
Thanks nikki.
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@AutumnSnow (4625)
18 Oct 16
That's something I do not tolerate as well. I hope for her sake she listen's to you and I hope that everything works out for everyone involved.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
That child does not know how much I love her. I could have said ok let him stay but no I had to do all I could to stop it under my roof.
• Jacksonville, Florida
18 Oct 16
It's a tough situation all around.
@sharon6345 (106467)
• United States
18 Oct 16
Yes it's very tough.