Small wonder about friends.

Vietnam
October 25, 2016 11:55pm CST
The friends often ask my husband to help them in every way, especially when they need money. But if my husband needed help, he could not have them. Since we married, I know that he never received the help from his friends when he needs to. At such times, I must have enlisted the help of my friends. For me, on the contrary, my friends almost rarely ask for my help. I think that they do not want me to worry, only when truly necessary, they call me. Do you think the difference is only because I am a woman? :)
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4 responses
• United States
26 Oct 16
I am not very fond of those who don't help back when needed. (But it does not have to be financial wise) For instance say you need a lending hand for a home repair, will his friend help? I don't think his friends are good friends if they wouldn't help in return IF your husband needed help.
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
I think like you. But my husband is not. He almost doesn't think about that. He only feel that he should help them when they call ! :(
• United States
26 Oct 16
@tkonlinevn Men! It should be a two way streak! In this case, I feel his friends take advantage of your husband because he is too nice. Has he ever refused to help someone?
@AkoPinay (10099)
• Philippines
26 Oct 16
He must learn how to say NO.
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
I have said to him very much about this. But the result is the same. He still can not say NO :D
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@AkoPinay (10099)
• Philippines
26 Oct 16
@tkonlinevn you better keep the money
@ms1864 (6975)
• Bangalore, India
26 Oct 16
Maybe...me and my friends never come to each other for money issues.....we all know that is something we have to figure out on our own.
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
I'm too. money is a sensitive issue. I only talk to my friends when it's really nessecessary.
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@marguicha (101804)
• Chile
26 Oct 16
Your husband does not have true friends, unfortunatly.
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• Vietnam
26 Oct 16
I wish he can read this comment !