He left me

@carebear29 (31961)
Wausau, Wisconsin
October 27, 2016 11:00pm CST
Yep, the guy I was seeing decided to break up with me the chicken way out. He found a new girlfriend and she then messaged me on Facebook telling me to leave him alone and what not and then blocked me. Like seriously? I did a lot for R including spending money on him I didn't have and my husband giving him clothes to have. Whatever. I felt like the rebound chick now because he reminds me of how I was treated by another ex boyfriend, just the same. I'm done with him completely and calling everything I spent on him and what not a loss. He's never getting me back anymore for sure now. Sorry, vent post.
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
28 Oct 16
I'd try to stay happy + single for now. Especially since you went out of your way to buy items for this person, it shouldn't be about spending when you first meet someone..
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
That is what I might do.
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Michelle
@infatuatedbby (95001)
• United States
28 Oct 16
@carebear29 good luck!
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
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April
@thislittlepennyearns (58103)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
28 Oct 16
Maybe its a sign that you should try to work on things with your husband.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
Maybe!
April
@thislittlepennyearns (58103)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
28 Oct 16
@carebear29 give it a shot at least.
tara causey
@taramarie39 (667)
• Williamsburg, Virginia
28 Oct 16
I am really sorry this happened to you. He doesn't deserve you. You deserve to be respected. That was really crappy what happened.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
Thank much. It helps.
Jabo
@jaboUK (64362)
• United Kingdom
28 Oct 16
I'm sorry that happened to you, you don't seem to be very lucky in love. If he treated you like that he's not worth bothering with anyway.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
Its ok. I am done with him now anyways. He got his last chance.
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Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
28 Oct 16
You are pretty and for sure you'll find a man that will treat you right. Maybe it is not the time but who knows the next time.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
R lost his chances with me now.
Manisha
@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
28 Oct 16
So your husband knew you were seeing someone else? That's a little confusing... i mean i know things are a little rocky with you and you husband.... but he is like ok with you seeing someone else?
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
@ms1864 Nope, he is seeing someone behind my back. THis is how it all started.
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Dx.Tr
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
28 Oct 16
I felt sad for her husband...
Yuki
@yukimori (10142)
• United States
28 Oct 16
Sounds like he was just using you to get ahead. Sorry.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
Yep and now he is out of my life.
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51498)
• Philippines
28 Oct 16
Well, better luck next time. YOu did risk it and gamble him and turns out he wasn't committed. I'm sure karma will hit him that's for sure.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
I hope karma hits him good because I won't be there to catch him.
Jellybelly
@CookieMonster46 (13447)
• United States
28 Oct 16
How long were you with him? You say your husband gave him clothes? and ex husband? or husband? I would't go back either, it would happen again, sorry it happened
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
With R? A week and my husband 12 years plus.
myLot Prince (LOL)
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
29 Oct 16
ow wait! am i reading this right? you have a husband and then you HAD a boyfriend just recently?
Pinay Ako
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
28 Oct 16
It is hard to find a man like your husband so if I were you just stick with him. You're lucky enough to have him. He seemed to be very kind so why look for another.
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UpbeatRae
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
28 Oct 16
I just might at this rate. I am doing a lot of thinking