Cheating/Following Instincts

United States
November 25, 2006 7:46pm CST
I have a boyfriend, which I love very much...The thing is, I feel deep down in my heart he is cheating on me...I read the text messages in his phone sometimes and they are from other females..when I ask him about them, he wants me to call them and find out who they are...its been three months, I haven't been to his house or met his family or anything like that..I feel as though he either already had a girl when we got together, or he started another relationship while this one goes on..what should I do?
3 responses
@CMC122003 (316)
• United States
26 Nov 06
If you feel in your heart that he is. Then he probably is. Your gut reaction is usually the right one. I hope that things work out for you. You deserve someone better.
• United States
26 Nov 06
I really feel that he is doing something he isn't supposed to..this whole "women's intuition" thing is kicking my butt..the thing is, I thought he was going to be "something better" he saw what my ex did to me and said he wouldn't do it..starting to think now that there aren't any good men anywhere...
• United States
26 Nov 06
I would take him up on his offer. Call the other girls. Personally that is totally disrespectful to even get texts from other women. If you are ok with it now, I PROMISE you it will continue.
• United States
26 Nov 06
I wanted to, but I was just in shock when I saw all these "baby I miss you" "when are you coming to see me" messages..and you are so right, I thought he would realize how stupid it was to even keep the messages in his inbox, but I see whenever he gets here, there are at least 10 of them..
@jeanena (1616)
• Bucklin, Kansas
26 Nov 06
Usually there are reasons why we feel like there is something going on.