He doesn't like my outfit. Would you change your clothes?

United States
November 6, 2016 1:12am CST
My boyfriend & I are pretty straight forward. If we don't like each other's outfits - we will let each other know. No hard feelings. The other day, I wore my Juicy Couture Velour Tracksuit. I wasn't planning on going anywhere so lounging in it is fine, but in public - my boyfriend hates how it looks. I don't mind, so he asked if I was going to change - I said no. Then, I ate my sandwich and spilled ketchup on myself.. so he won! I had to change If your significant other wears an outfit and you don't think it looks good on them or the combination isn't nice - would you let them know? If I had not spilled ketchup, I wouldn't have changed though!
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@zarlamain (24527)
• United States
6 Nov 16
No, I never told my ex boyfriends that their clothes didn't look good on them. So funny! You would've won had it not been for spilling that ketchup!
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• United States
6 Nov 16
Hahah! There are times I would be like ~ What are you wearing?! But then again, my boyfriend likes to change his clothes so often. Sometimes we even go back home to change because he doesn't like what he's wearing. I know! Darn! He was like see, ketchup spilt to tell you that you should change.
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@zarlamain (24527)
• United States
6 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby So funny! That's understandable that you two would go back home to change because he doesn't like what he's wearing. It's probably uncomfortable for him. Wow, really? You could've won!
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• United States
6 Nov 16
@zarlamain I don't ever need to go home back and change - but sometimes he does Yes! Darn if I didn't spill ketchup - I would have won, ha-ha!
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@TRBRocks420 (75407)
• Banks, Oregon
6 Nov 16
It would depend how weird the outfit is, but generally no lol.
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• United States
6 Nov 16
Haha! I used to go to work not matching sometimes only because we had to wear a jacket over our clothes so no one can tell what you're wear anyway though As long as I am comfortable! Especially if its over time for 10 hours/12 hours!
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@cacay1 (32740)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Nov 16
@TRBRocks420 , It is so nice of you TR, so understanding hehehe
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@cacay1 (32740)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby That is nice hehehe me here now, I never wear a bra for I wear many things cannot be detected hehehehe.
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@Happy2BeMe (74682)
• Canada
6 Nov 16
I would never tell my fiance what to wear and he better not ever tell ,everyone what to wear ever.
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• United States
6 Nov 16
My boyfriend likes to ask my opinion on every outfit he selects to wear . He doesn't say it in a rude way just.. are you sure you want to wear that?
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@Happy2BeMe (74682)
• Canada
6 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby my fiance ask me too but I would not want him to tell me what to wear. If I feel good wearing something then that is good for me.
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• United States
6 Nov 16
@Happy2BeMe Hehe yes fair enough
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@louievill (18379)
• Philippines
6 Nov 16
If my wife comments something like that I would take it off and jokingly throw it at her, even if it were my trousers there is a slight difference when you are already married.
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@AkoPinay (11709)
• Philippines
6 Nov 16
OMG
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@louievill (18379)
• Philippines
6 Nov 16
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Hahah
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@crossbones27 (19048)
• Redlands, California
6 Nov 16
Sounds like a slipperly slope to me, but in general I do not care. I love the poor look, came into this world with nothing and we go out with nothing.
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@cacay1 (32740)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Nov 16
@crossbones27 , wow perfect reason.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
We are good. We've been together for almost a decade - our engagement party is set for February
7 Nov 16
you shouldn't care
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@moffittjc (42059)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Nov 16
For the sake of my love life, I never say a negative word about what my girlfriend is wearing! lol
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• United States
6 Nov 16
HAHA! What about you? Does she ever say anything about your clothes?
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@moffittjc (42059)
• Gainesville, Florida
6 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby Every time I get dressed!
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• United States
6 Nov 16
@moffittjc Hahha :) she always has something good to say or bad.
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@Ayuriny (5178)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
6 Nov 16
That's funny. If only you hadn't spilled ketchup on yourself.. I never complain on what he's wearing. I'm fine with his outfits. I hope he does the same. So far he hasn't complained mine yet.
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• United States
6 Nov 16
Haha! Surprisingly I have always spilt something when I wear that outfit. Maybe the outfit knows my boyfriend doesn't like it much
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@Ayuriny (5178)
• Denpasar, Indonesia
6 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby It's really surprising that your outfits know your bf better than you.
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• United States
6 Nov 16
@Ayuriny Hahah I don't blame him! I don't love the outfit as much! But I felt like wearing it. The material feels like a towel lol!
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@SIMPLYD (78624)
• Philippines
6 Nov 16
I follow my husband if he tells me that my clothes is already too tight on me .
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Good to hear you will listen to him.
@SIMPLYD (78624)
• Philippines
7 Nov 16
@HAPPSINGH Yes, it is indeed .
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@SIMPLYD (78624)
• Philippines
9 Nov 16
@HAPPSINGH We have just celebrated our 26th Wedding anniversary last July .
• United States
6 Nov 16
after 18 years married - my husband doesn't own any clothing that I wouldn't like him to wear LOL...
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• United States
7 Nov 16
I'm at 10 years dating.. I still have some clothes I own - I don't really like
• United States
7 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby I dated/lived with a guy for 3 years and he bought me what he wanted me to wear. He would not leave the house until I was dressed how he wanted me to dress. He was a controlling sob. I won't go on but I could for day about things he did/said to me. I was a doormat and I got out from under that and my current husband would never tell/suggest what I wear.
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• United States
8 Nov 16
@AbbyGreenhill Wow. I am glad you're not in that relationship anymore! That's scary to have someone control you like that.
@LeaPea2417 (19802)
• Toccoa, Georgia
7 Nov 16
My husband is set in his ways concerning his clothes. He wouldn't change if I didn't like the outfit. I may change mine but on rare occasion.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
My boyfriend likes to ask my suggestion/recommendation.
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@LeaPea2417 (19802)
• Toccoa, Georgia
7 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby On a rare occasion, my husband will ask me which shirt or pair of pants in better.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
@LeaPea2417 My boyfriend often asks, lol. Sometimes I get frustrated and go figure it out yourself
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@paigea (21925)
• Canada
6 Nov 16
I appreciate his input, but if I really like what I'm wearing I don't change.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Yes, I agree - I had no choice as I spilled ketchup lol
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@paigea (21925)
• Canada
7 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby did your husband "accidently' bump you?
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• United States
7 Nov 16
@paigea not married yet but no he didn't! I spilt ketchup all by myself lol
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@DianneN (76164)
• United States
6 Nov 16
I never had that problem, and my hubby is a snazzy dresser.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Heheh :) I am sure you don't! Your taste is lovely :)
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@DianneN (76164)
• United States
7 Nov 16
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@jstory07 (66009)
• Roseburg, Oregon
6 Nov 16
Did you spill the ketchup on yourself on purpose. My husband has never told me what to wear.
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• United States
6 Nov 16
Hahah no! It wasn't on purpose at all. He doesn't tell me what to wear.. but he asked if I am sure I want to wear that!
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@cacay1 (32740)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Nov 16
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@teamfreak16 (40872)
• Colorado Springs, Colorado
6 Nov 16
No, I don't but she sure does.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
@sunrisefan (17344)
• Philippines
6 Nov 16
Very clever, Ms. Michele :)
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• United States
7 Nov 16
@chiwasaki (4661)
• Philippines
6 Nov 16
Most of the time, i will listen to my husband when it comes to clothing.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Will he listen to your feedback to him? Or do you provide feedback on his clothing?
@chay23 (194)
6 Nov 16
i think your bf enjoyed that moment
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Yeah probably because he won!
@cacay1 (32740)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 Nov 16
That is what I am doing dear to my love if my fit is okay and if he says no, I do change
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Heh very nice of you to hear his suggestions on your outfits
@LadyDuck (151794)
• Switzerland
6 Nov 16
Of course I would let my husband know if he is wearing something that it does not look good. He never fails to look how I am dressed and I change my outfit if he does not like.
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Yes! I can relate
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@LadyDuck (151794)
• Switzerland
7 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby I dress for myself, but I also dress to please my husband, there is no reason to wear something that he does not like.@HAPPSINGH
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• United States
7 Nov 16
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@ShyBear88 (17158)
• United States
7 Nov 16
Got be honest I could, care less what my husband does or doesn't wear. It's his style so he can wear what every regardless if I like it or not. If he doe t ask I don't tell. He does the same for me. As a mom I could care less what I'm actually wear or at in public as long as I'm wear clothes and not pj's
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• United States
7 Nov 16
Hehe that is good. My boyfriend always questions or asks me what he should wear even though he has a choice. I sometimes wear pajamas to run quick errands.
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@ShyBear88 (17158)
• United States
9 Nov 16
@infatuatedbby both me and my husband have always been we don't care what we wear. Of course I'm use to having kids put food all over my shirt of spit up which has t hPpened in a really long time.
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• United States
9 Nov 16
@ShyBear88 Hehe that's good. :) Yes since your kids are getting older!
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