Feeling Broken

Manila, Philippines
November 14, 2016 6:43am CST
For three days, I received his message he is busy in his work. It's not an issue, but I was disappointed he did not even say he will be busier for the entire week. Am I just sensitive? If it will happen to you, how would you handle? I was not serious but can't resist when he says I never cared his feelings. oMG! Now I can relate to Selena Gomez' song that loving someone is sometimes like a torture. Sorry guys for sharing, but I find this a safer place to share this pain. I am thinking that, if a guy is faithful, he would do anything to message his girl in the middle of his busy days.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
14 Nov 16
Guys don't always think of doing those things. Sometime you have to let him how much a message in the middle of the day will mean to you. It is not that he doesn't care. I think you need to sit down and have a good talk with him. I know it is disappointing but sounds like work is very important to him. I am sorry you are feeling that way.
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• Manila, Philippines
14 Nov 16
@Happy2BeMe, thank you for your opinion. Maybe I just act like a child which is not right.
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@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
14 Nov 16
@iamshane487 You are not acting like a child at all. You have every right to feel the way that you do. It is who you are and there is nothing wrong with being sensitive and caring. Most people would feel the same ay.
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• Manila, Philippines
14 Nov 16
@Happy2BeMe I am thinking that maybe we aren't the perfect match.
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
16 Nov 16
Okay . . to ease the pain, listen to the song entitled Behind The Tear (You Tube)! A line goes - - "Behind the tear, a broken heart! Behind a broken heart, there lies a broken dream" . . Let me know if you like the melody or not.
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• Manila, Philippines
17 Nov 16
thank you. @antonbunot, I like it's lyrics, but the melody seems like it's a song of my grandpa's time. hehehe
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
17 Nov 16
@iamshane487 O, yeah . . . it became a hit when I was in college (seminary)! That was 30 years ago! hahahaha
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
19 Aug 17
I know this was written months ago. How are you feeling now? I hope that you are doing well.
@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
15 Nov 16
Let's drink vodka haha kidding
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• Manila, Philippines
15 Nov 16
@AkoPinay, lol. I prefer coffee nalang. haha
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@AkoPinay (11544)
• Philippines
15 Nov 16
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Nov 16
There is nothing wrong with feeling upset about this. He should be able to try and message you if he has a break. The best thing to do is to not worry about it and just have a good time without him while he is busy, talk with your friends, do something nice for yourself and just have fun and not think about him.
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• Manila, Philippines
14 Nov 16
@desirousDreamer, I did that but can't fight. But thank you for your advice. God bless you!
• Peoria, Arizona
14 Nov 16
@iamshane487 Just remember you always have open feelings, communicate how you feel.
• Agra, India
14 Nov 16
U can understand it hurts....but may be he us really busy.. Try to have faith and leave the rest on time
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• Manila, Philippines
14 Nov 16
@amitkokiladitya, did you experience it before?
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
16 Nov 16
I would be hurt if I was in your shoes. I don't know but I think I should be prioritized by my boyfriend.
@skysnap (20154)
14 Nov 16
cheer up there is always another day.
@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
20 Nov 16
I understand how you feel ...
@LadyDuck (458091)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 16
NO, a guy can be so busy that he cannot send a message. I know that my husband would be more than annoyed if I texted knowing he is busy for his work and he surely would not reply.
• United States
15 Nov 16
perhaps he's busy, perhaps he jest needs a lil space? one ne'er knows 'bout these thingies. follow yer gut, not'cher heart.
@Jenning (2016)
• Nigeria
14 Nov 16
Uhmmm. One thing I know for myself for sure is this, when a guy loves a girl, he will surely find time for conversation. I'm just saying, but you cannot completely tell he doesn't love you or is not faithful. Just watch him and be cul.
@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
16 Nov 16
I think you should talk to him on how you feel. I think he should let you know if he was busy that week so you want have to worry if he was ok.