What if your child...

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@soldenski (2504)
United States
November 25, 2006 11:22pm CST
How would you feel if your son/daughter came to you and told you they were gay? Would you kick them out of your house? Support them?
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@shrys03 (1016)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
definitely i will accept and support them.. *__*
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Thanks for your reply
@ismabibi (15)
• India
26 Nov 06
i will make sure ....... to be good to them and try to change them...
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
It's not like changing your mind about what car you want. Why change them and not just support them as they are.
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@niranjans87 (1079)
• India
26 Nov 06
Well I ma not yet married but if my son or dayghter were to tell that they were gay first thing I would want them to do is to be sure before telling anyone else.....i have seen too many people going into a phase and assuming that he/she were gay and later going the other way back again....If they are sure then I ll support them no matter what....cos they are my kids whatever they may be....I will to tally support them with their lives both when they are kids and when they grow up to become adults...
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Great answer, Thanks for your reply
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• United States
26 Nov 06
Its my child. I have unconditional love for them. I would love them no matter what. I would NOT kick them out for that.
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Good for you. Thanks for your reply
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@krysy1982 (1042)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I wouldn't like it but I love my kids. I would accept them with open arms.
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Thanks for your reply
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@CMC122003 (316)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I would support them in their decision. I would never kick them out of my house.
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• United States
26 Nov 06
I would support them and talk to them, I might be disappointed at first, but I would get over it.
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• India
26 Nov 06
I am a batchlor still now. So there is no questuion of child.
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@CDonohue (379)
• United States
28 Nov 06
To me this is not up for discussion it's my child you love them from the time you find out they are on the way, nothing can change that!
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Love this answer, that's how it should be
@soldenski (2504)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Love this answer, that's how it should be
@brendalee (6084)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I would not be upset nor would I even think about kicking him out. And I definately would not try to change his way of thinking. I would support my son no matter what.
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Wow all of your answer's to my discussion are great. Thanks for your reply
@brendalee (6084)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Your welcome. And thank you. I am glad there is finally some good topics to post on. Keep it up please.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
would support them, instead of one daughter I would have 2!
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
2 Jan 07
Great response. You way of thinking is why I choose your answer as best response. Thanks for your reply
@FATRIX (984)
• India
28 Nov 06
YeS
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
29 Nov 06
yes what???
@anne_143god (5390)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
Maybe I will respect him or her but I will fully influenced my child and help her or him not to be like that when he grows up.
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
But there is nothing you could do to "change" him or her. If you want them to be honest with themselves and you, then you need to accept them as they are.
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@easy123 (1486)
• India
26 Nov 06
my child is 1 son is fight in mom and dad small thay 1 yaers and very funny
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I don't understand your response, so I'll just say Thanks for your reply
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• United States
26 Nov 06
as a parent i believe i would stand by them i might not agree with it but i would accept it because they are my kids and i would not kick them out of the house
@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Love your answer.
@anja31 (708)
• Canada
26 Nov 06
sure it is my child, no matter what happens
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Good for you. Thanks for your reply
• India
26 Nov 06
i would try to make her/him see a counseller .would give my children the upport they need to sort out their feelings
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
And if after they saw the counsler, they still are gay, then what?
@Jshean20 (14374)
• Canada
26 Nov 06
Support them of course. I will admit that it would be a hard thing to understand at first, but kicking them out of the house wouldn't be right. I would accept it.
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
Thanks for your reply
@kage2k3 (1444)
• India
26 Nov 06
First thing that will arise in my mind would be anger. But i wont kick him out of house. I will try my every best effort to put him on the more natural and normal way. Being gay or lesbian is not a proud thing
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
But if that is their lifestyle, and that is not a choice (I believe) I don't think someone would choose to do something against their family beliefs. That is something they are born with. My aunt is gay and I find her normal and natural for her. And most importantly she is happy and that's what I care about
@yugi_sen (1742)
• India
26 Nov 06
Its very hard to kick off your own kids so based on the situation. We can check the possibility of psychiatric treatment in case that can resolve the issue.
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@soldenski (2504)
• United States
26 Nov 06
What is there to resolve, they enjoy same sexed relationship's.