An insulted every one in the family
November 30, 2016 3:54pm CST
They knew it for six months but for some reason they didn't want to bother telling me. Not sure why Mom can't tell me herself but it seemed she has no problem telling it to strangers or other people she called friends I've noticed my sister in law's visit to grandma for the last few months became too often. Then when my aunts came last month, it became even more frequent. After their last talk I learned from her alone that my brother was having an affair. They talk and talk to him for weeks, but he was a stoned-cold heart moron like my father. All this time I thought it was just work related why he doesn't go home much, sadly the truth came out. He didn't a give a damn about the sacrifices we've made for him over the years. When I went to their house, I sense the hate in her towards my brother. I don't blame her, what he did insulted every one in her and my family. Part of me just want to physically hurt him but being angry doesn't lead you anywhere. Because of what he did, there's a power struggle now within the family. No, I don't like and agree with what he just did. That's why I avoid him, he has no right to ask any favors anymore. I know it's the trend these days, but it's just doesn't feel right to me.
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• United States
30 Nov 16
This is so upsetting for your entire family. It isn't right what your brother did and it never was or will be right in the minds of the majority of humans, I believe. I think you are right that due to his big mistake, he should distance himself from the family.
• Rochester, New York
1 Dec 16
@Letranknight2015 I had to distance myself from the whole thing because it infuriated me what she did to my brother. She cheated on him with his now ex best friend. Not even their sons want anything to do with her. They disowned her.
2 Dec 16
If Grandma hadn't told me, I wouldn't have the urge ask others about it @hereandthere Because my Mom being a mother. But I'm sure she doesn't agree with what he's doing. The last time he tried to ask him money I heard she didn't give him anything.